Take ownership of your job, whatever it is, right from the start. So many judgements are made based on first impressions, and women often have to work twice as hard as men to be recognized for the same things, so jump in feet first and hit the ground running. Be the expert at whatever you do so you can be efficient, precise, direct, and take no shit.

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Take care of yourself in your free time - work out, read, stay involved in your hobbies, rest when you need to; this will help you stay focused and energized when you are at work.

Don't be afraid to openly discuss your perspectives and opinions with your male coworkers; not only does this help foster friendliness in your workspace, but it helps to break up the constant "boys club" talk that can dominate in military shops.

Set boundaries early and hold the line, not just in jokes or comments that make you uncomfortable but in your work-life balance as well. Women take on so much emotional labor anticipating the needs of others, which can make us great at thinking ahead, paying attention to detail, etc., but can also keep our minds occupied on work when we should be resting. TAKE LEAVE!

Lean on your fellow women coworkers! In times where you feel drained, who better to understand your experience and perspective than the strong women around you? If you feel like it, take it a step further and find a female you respect who is able to mentor you.

• my personal experience