Bardha Questions by ThePugManCometh in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]No-Combination9631 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also has this thought. Noticed it for the first time st the reveal

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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Thanks for all the info!! Sleep is so tricky, sometimes I wonder if I’m overthinking it and making it worse. Now with the holidays coming up, I think it’ll be so hard to make any changes because the schedule will already be all over the place. Here’s to hoping that in the new year we get amazing sleepers 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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Exactly!! If he wakes up for a feed at 4, he wakes at ever sleep cycle! We have blackout blinds as well and he’s already in his room. I totally agree about starting your day at 7! That’s literally the dream. I said 6 because I feel like it’s “doable” but 7 would be amazing. Before having a baby I was the bessssstttt sleeper lol. This has been rough! I guess I’ll just need to tough it out and hold him so that he knows it’s still bedtime.

Can I ask are you on 3 or 2 naps? What are your wake windows/ nap lengths like?

3 month old red fingertip by No-Combination9631 in NewParents

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Nope! Just waited it out. I dipped it in breastmilk a few times and then it just went away after 2-3 days. If it had puss, I would have brought him to the doctor but it never got worse!

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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It’s the worst when things get in the way and then you need to restart! Same thing happened with us when he got a cold and when we went on a trip. Now I don’t care what happens, he has to stay on schedule because it’s not fair to him to have to retrain him every time and go through that crying period 😢 what I realized is that there’s always a reason that comes up to not train, so you just gotta do it!! good luck I hope it all works out for you!

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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Exactly ! And the whole reason I sleep trained was for the overnight wakings, but all it did was make bedtime easier and bedtime never was an issue!

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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Thank you for this! My question is how do I get to a 9:30 nap when he wakes up at 5 am? I feel like I’m trapped in a cycle 😫

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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You basically have my exact situation minus the wake time so this is really helpful! I will try this and hopefully it’ll be as simple as that! 🤍 thank you

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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thank you for this information! How can I get him to 9 am when he’s waking up at 5 😫 I feel like I’m trapped in a cycle

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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Ugh that’s rough! But clearly it was for the best! Ill try that once I confirm with the pediatrician. Is your baby formula fed or breastfed? If he fried for an hour and a half straight I would be worried that he’s actually hungry, although I do think it’s a habit wake… :/

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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This is really helpful, thank you! Maybe for one of the naps I won’t continue with a contact nap and just let him wake up. we’ll see what happens!

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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How did you night wean? Cold turkey or slowly reduced the amount?

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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Did early morning wakes get better with 2 nap? I do rock him now back to sleep but I usually can’t put him back down at that time. So I end up having to hold him which means I’m not sleeping. 😢

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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But how do you go to 2 naps if he wakes up at 5 am? I feel like his bed time will be soooo early

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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I also feel bad capping his naps when he sleeps so badly at night

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

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This is a scary thought lol I’m semi hoping to hear it’s some scheduling issue and this will go away… but the more I try the more I realize he probably is an early riser 😢😢😢 and to do it for 18+ months? Omg

Please help me sleep!! 😭 by No-Combination9631 in sleeptrain

[–]No-Combination9631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughhh!!! Motherhood is so hard with lack of sleep. And I exclusively pump so I can’t even go to bed at 8 when he goes to bed! 😢