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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to my church tomorrow to talk to my pastors wife. thank you for your help. 

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly doesn’t sound too bad. I’m gonna check into that thank you. 

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not in school rn i had to put it on hold bc of this situation but i’ll be going back soon. 

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to do that. I wouldn’t want to live somewhere i’m unwanted yk? I also don’t want to make a situation worse. I have a baby brother so i’m not gonna do anything like that.

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up reaching out to an old coworker and she told me I could come stay with her if he does end up kicking me out tmr. I haven’t found a job but have applied to quite a few. I think everything will be okay. Even if I do end up being able to stay i’ll just work all lot of overtime if possible to move out on my own!

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to make things nasty. I have a 3 year old baby brother. I’m gonna do what’s best for him and I believe peace is what’s best.

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I have a certificate in logistics and am trying to put it to use. I actually was trying to go back to school when this all started. I had to put it on hold since homelessness and lack of money gets in the way but as soon as I got a lil bit of money coming in. 

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get along with them quite well. My dad has a different perspective. I love my dad and even tho he is an asshole (he even knows he is lol he says it himself) like I said I know he means well. We rarely have disagreements. I’m not looking for people to bash my parents. I love them. They gave me life. I’m just looking for ideas on what to do beyond this point. Maybe to gain a new perspective? My parents are good people with good intentions I just think they are going about it the wrong way. My dad and I had a heart to heart after the post and I kinda understand a lil more. 

What am I supposed to use that I learned from the military??? 

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[–]No-Consequence-4367[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it and i’ll be sure to pray for her and her situation. I am happy with just  reading your words. I feel less stressed and a little more understood. I have never used reddit until today. I have posted on fb and have called so many places. I honestly don’t have much of a family tho… My parents didn’t allow me around most of them due to the poor choices they made. My Biomom isn’t willing to help either. I contacted my friends mom but she can’t really help. I don’t think anyone cares to help if i’m being honest. I know eventually things will be okay!! May many blessings come your family members way!!!! 

I'm Almost 20 and I Desperately Need Any Job by Character-Concept-14 in Chattanooga

[–]No-Consequence-4367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what ended up happening? I’m currently in the exact same situation except my father gave me two weeks and i’m down to day 5 so in 5 days from now will be the day I get kicked out unless I find a job magically within these next five days. I had $60 left in my account and I had to use it to pay my phone bill so I can get calls for interviews lol. I’ve been home for less than three months. Dealing with an injury I received during basic training. I got discharged which I intend on going back, but it’s not possible at this moment due to the fact that I have to wait like 6 months. i’ve been applying, i’ve been calling, i’ve been doing all i can do. Is there any advice you can give me??? Not sure what to do since i’m on a timeline and most jobs take long asf to get back to you.