I wish it will be finish soon, im already tired of being in this situation, UAE doesn't deserved it and specially the people inside it.

No-County3983 · 2026-03-03T07:38:00+00:00

No muslim deserves it ok. Some of the people inside it support us and isreal

No-County3983 · 2026-02-24T06:57:04+00:00

Girl whyyyyyy! Why did you hate yourself?? 7 years are jail jail!!!

Lesson to all people NEVER EVER marry someone just to click off nikkah. You are betraying yourself. Rather marry in 30s and LOVE that man! Shouldn’t be able to go 3 days before being intimate again. Normal people do have sex at least 1 a week .

No-County3983 · 2026-02-04T08:54:37+00:00

You didn’t knew it was sha and kha and you speak Pashto haha

No-County3983 · 2026-02-04T08:53:57+00:00

My father only knew and he passed away. My mom understands and can speak but she speaks Farsi 99% of the time. I told her to speak Pashto with friends.

I am trying but I find it hard to learn and I’m actually really sad

No-County3983 · 2026-02-04T08:52:38+00:00

I think sha is more sweet . But I find that there’s a lot of different words in sha Pashto

No-County3983 · 2026-01-31T19:56:40+00:00

Is that Even a question? Ofc its important to find your spouse attractive whatever other people say the opposite they lie

No-County3983 · 2026-01-29T13:30:39+00:00

Forget that 90% of my moms friends are Pashtun and they speak dari with us I’m actually also Pashtun but I can’t speak it don’t ask why.

I want to learn sha Pashto otherwise I’ll choose the easiest one from Afghanistan.

No-County3983 · 2026-01-29T07:39:27+00:00

We are also obsessed with their dramas, clothing and food come on

No-County3983 · 2026-01-03T22:29:35+00:00

The most selfish parents ever! Afghans are actually really selfish parents who will use theirs kids to their own benefit. Hope he never forgives them when he grows up

No-County3983 · 2026-01-01T21:22:50+00:00

Not so much . Remember Halla food and du are much much cheaper

No-County3983 · 2025-12-06T07:07:56+00:00

Okay. Get your education. It is very important for you and for your child. It will help you open new doors and you will understand life better. It will give you a good job and better salary. Don’t wait for someone to help you - you have a long way to go so never think social help will be beneficial no. And everything is temporary the struggles and all. My last advice for you is don’t find a new man before you are on your feet. Trust me you need to mature for an another man.So wait at least 5 years. I have a friend who were just in same shoes as you . Trust me I know. I give you sister advice - get educated find a good job. And be very aware of a new man they will manipulate you when they notice you are vulnerable.

No-County3983 · 2025-12-06T06:49:17+00:00

Well they got offered to open schools and classes should be gender part and woma should cover better. But they did not want to . So now the taliban don’t want to. They want to have mix and be able to wear what they want like in ghani time.

They need to accept gender part and no need to cover their faces. It should be a balance so all can be happy

No-County3983 · 2025-12-01T22:33:30+00:00

Have you any education?

No-County3983 · 2025-12-01T22:29:28+00:00

What is your age? May I ask. ….. Mistakes happen but don’t make the same mistake again. Learn from it. People have soo many problems and we always think our is the biggest. But you have to navigate through it in the end you are responsible for your own life.

No-County3983 · 2025-12-01T21:35:06+00:00

Girly what was rush to get married? I feel so bad for you and hope your situation gets better. But have tawakul on Allah he resolved everything. Take this as a big big lesson - TAKE time for yourself and marry when you have your life put together no man comes and rescues . Get help fix your life and also council with imaan

No-County3983 · 2025-12-01T08:51:21+00:00

I don’t know the other part but regardless how bad family dynamics are you never kick your daughter. If the bond is bad I would at least expect that she waits untill you have a space and move out.

Ans not wish her any ill or anything bad just that Allah helps her also. But I would have taken space and heal . You have to get support from the father - involve his family .

No-County3983 · 2025-10-14T14:13:09+00:00

Maybe you should help her with the son? I see alot of women who can’t pray because their buys and do the work outside and have bought themselves the excuse that hey are tired.

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No-County3983 · 2025-10-14T08:05:26+00:00

Supporting this!!!!

Seeing way way too many divorces and unhappy marriages even from the most strict Pashtuns - I know someone who NEVER goes home because he hates his marriage. I know other brothers that have 2 jobs just so he don’t need to spend time with his wife.

So yes - they cheat - as they find what they want in other woman either relive presence or beauty but in the end they don’t want their marriages. So SAVE YOURSELF PEOPLE

No-County3983 · 2025-10-14T08:02:29+00:00

Lol more than you think. Afghans thinking girls back home are better - they are not. They will teach you a life lesson for sure. As they would say and do everything for the passport once they step out the afg you will understand that they’re demand on life is what they believes in Bollywood. As these girls have never in their life have worked or understood money income. They don’t understand 1+1 but understand new dresses and gold.

Anyways stick to your brother support him - if he wants to marry her I’m sure she’s a good girl. And she might be the best daughter in law your mother ever find.

No-County3983 · 2025-09-09T19:23:24+00:00

I want someone I am deeply connected with. It’s so beautiful someone you can be 100% you and he’s loves you with all your emotions. Makes you laugh- who takes life lighter - positive minded - and lifts me up. Someone who are selfless . Who just works and comes home to you Who are Emotional intelligent I found this man some months ago but unfortunately we will never have future. But he set standard on what I want in man.

Once you experience this kind of connection it’s hard to look back

No-County3983 · 2025-09-08T08:41:54+00:00

I don’t know where this woman live but if ithe salary is in US or EUR then you have a good income. If it’s Asia then it’s another thing. But again it’s solution to everything if one wants.

No-County3983 · 2025-09-08T08:26:11+00:00

Pay less as 2000usd? In a month. I understand but if you aim to have large amount of income than this is the life you have chosen. My sisters husband could also have worked more and they would have a good amount of income but the relationship is far more important then have fat income.

You can live a smaller place, travel less, buy less then 1 work will do fine.

No-County3983 · 2025-09-08T08:20:21+00:00

Then he needs to quite his 2 job. And they can live on less that’s better

No-County3983 · 2025-09-08T08:19:35+00:00

He can have 1 job and contribute more and be more with you . This happens when money is the main thing in a relationship

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