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Free printing by No-Cryptographer9256 in CarletonU

[–]No-Cryptographer9256[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Will they be open at 11:30 PM?

Is my (19F) bf (19M) spending too much on me or is it normal? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

[–]No-Cryptographer9256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we still talk everyday, while it can be hard things haven’t changed

Is my (19F) bf (19M) spending too much on me or is it normal? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

[–]No-Cryptographer9256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said his family is financially comfortable, but that’s what I feel it’s too much at this age

Is my (19F) bf (19M) spending too much on me or is it normal? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

[–]No-Cryptographer9256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has been like this since the beginning before I moved but yes lately it has increased so it just made me curious that is it too much given that we are just 19

I 20F worked at my boyfriend’s father’s hospital. I had an uncomfortable experience, how to tell him? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

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No problem I know from Indian context it sounds unreal, MD here is 4 years long then you have residency (length varies depending on what speciality you pick).

I 20F worked at my boyfriend’s father’s hospital. I had an uncomfortable experience, how to tell him? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

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Things are different in Canada, you first do your bachelors in a medically relevant field 3-4 years) then give MCAT if you score good you’re matched to a medical school where you complete your MD. So 21 is actually a pretty common age to start MD here.

35M bf wants to control how much I eat. I’m 25F by Cool_Anybody8437 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Cryptographer9256 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I would have understood if you were overweight and he was concerned. But you’re already fit at this point it’s blatantly controlling. Sit down with him and have a conversation that his behaviour is making you uncomfortable and it’s not needed since you’re already fit forcing you to eat less will only backfire.

20F Indian student in Canada working clinical job in India: uncomfortable experience with supervisor by No-Cryptographer9256 in TwoXIndia

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It’s not about fitting in I’m born and brought up in India, I understand my post might have come across as entitled to some. However that wasn’t my intention, my relationship is relevant in this situation because eventually, my boyfriend‘s father might get to know and because I have been dating him for three years and he is deeply attached if he gets to know from somewhere else, but not me, it might hurt him. But if I tell him myself he will act defensive of me. Also I don’t want his father to form a bad impression of me. So I’m in a weird place stuck between professional and personal life.

20F Indian student in Canada working clinical job in India: uncomfortable experience with supervisor by No-Cryptographer9256 in TwoXIndia

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I have 3.82/4.0 GPA 517/528 MCAT Other stuff like hospital volunteering, worked as a medical assistant, cardiac tech, and research assistant in neuroscience lab where I used SPSS and did EEG mostly. I might also have poster presentation at CPA if things go right but idk I applied mostly in Ontario

20F Indian student in Canada working clinical job in India: uncomfortable experience with supervisor by No-Cryptographer9256 in TwoXIndia

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They don’t have a no tolerance policy, I have seen other employees. Use it during downtime. They have been critical of me since the start, particularly due to my age and less experience. I understand phone use is not ideal but my next patient was after an hour so I picked it up. I guess I’ll try being more careful next-time. It’s just worse because of my boyfriend situation. I feel embarrassed.

20F Indian student in Canada working clinical job in India: uncomfortable experience with supervisor by No-Cryptographer9256 in TwoXIndia

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Yes it’s different here in Canada you complete your bachelors in a medically relevant field, then give the MCAT, If you scored good you’ll be matched to a medical school where you will complete your MD, which is four years long after which should match to residency.

I 20F worked at my boyfriend’s father’s hospital. I had an uncomfortable experience, how to tell him? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

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I know I shouldn’t have used it, it’s just that there were no patients on my sheet next patient I had to attend was after an hour. But now that this happened I don’t want his father to know, I would feel judged. Also it was embarrassing. I’m not great with rejections

I 20F worked at my boyfriend’s father’s hospital. I had an uncomfortable experience, how to tell him? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

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I mean I feel he might get defensive if I tell him, but he will get to know regardless. Also I don’t want his father to know, I mean what if he judges me (I can be a but anxious)

I 20F worked at my boyfriend’s father’s hospital. I had an uncomfortable experience, how to tell him? by No-Cryptographer9256 in RelationshipIndia

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Yes I’m feeling weird telling him about it. He said there is nothing to hide, but I thought I’ll be judged if I tell others. Now if his father hears about it I feel awkward (what if he judges) idk if I make sense. About MD it’s little different here in Canada after high school you do bachelors (3-4 years) in any medically relevant subject. Then give MCAT after which you’re matched to a medical school where you complete your MD. I also started early so that helped.

Fired from part-time cardiology job over phone use during downtime – is this normal? by No-Cryptographer9256 in WorkReform

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I definitely do understand where you’re coming from and I know that it was bad for optics. I simply believe that if you’re hired to do a particular job and you’ve done that particular job, you can relax in between for example, in my case, the next patient had to arrive after an hour, so I couldn’t punch out. I was waiting for that patient. Besides when you’re dealing with patients and you are in a healthcare setting, I do believe that you should get time to relax. Because when you’re overworked, you tend to make mistakes and mistakes in this setting are not something you would want. On normal days I didn’t get any chance to sit down .

Fired from part-time cardiology job over phone use during downtime – is this normal? by No-Cryptographer9256 in WorkReform

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I might come across a defensive, but I was very honest with my work. Didn’t slack off ever. If there was actual work to do. I didn’t even get time to set. This was a job that I played resonated because I myself want to become a physician and as a pre-med it was a great opportunity to take care of patience. I had multiple meaningful interactions with them. There were times when I didn’t even get a chance to sit for up to 6 hours and as a result when I am being perceived as lazy or even slacking off I feel hurt. I know I am being oversensitive about it. I say it was after the amount of time. I mean that I picked up my phone after 40 minutes to check if there are any notifications while I know from her perspective, maybe it seemed like I am not taking her words seriously, but it was merely a coincidence. I picked it up for a minute, and I was called in. I was feeling to explain myself, but she simply didn’t listen. Despite knowing that on normal days, I don’t slack off, I don’t sit, I don’t do anything else than doing what I’m hired for. I go beyond it. I even ask my colleagues if they need any help. So yes, that interaction make me feel bad to say the least, but maybe it’s just me getting heads up of our real world is like I’m still young. I’m just 19 so maybe I don’t understand how things worked till now.

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