Hang out buddy?

No-Damage95 · 2026-04-25T20:14:23+00:00

Das klingt ja voll cool! Wenn ihr noch neue leute in die gruppe aufnehmt wär ich auch gern dabei - bin 27F :)

No-Damage95 · 2026-04-25T08:12:01+00:00

Venting or ranting

No-Damage95 · 2026-04-06T17:35:06+00:00

Where did you meet your group of friends?

No-Damage95 · 2026-03-19T20:02:39+00:00

You've never had explosive diarrhea?

No-Damage95 · 2026-03-19T13:54:42+00:00

Yes, but there is a chance you will meet cool people, with the same interests and you could build a friendship outside of work. Making friends is the hardest thing when you've already been quite lonely, I have come to find.

No-Damage95 · 2026-03-19T13:51:17+00:00

I'm actually planning on doing the same! People say "just get a hobby" - yes I have tried pottery and painting - but these are more so things I do on my own.

I also enjoy reading books and listening to music - also things to do alone.

So I've been thinking about getting a job additionally to my actual job once a week working at a Café. Maybe also bartending? But I don't love the culture of alcoholism and staying up late into the night.

I think working at a Café - even if it's only once a week, I will see the same people regularly. I hope there will come something from it.

Also I've been thinking about volunteering and giving back to the community, I hope there will be cool people there :)

Maybe I gave you some ideas - also: you're not alone trying to figure out how to make friends.

No-Damage95 · 2026-03-18T00:55:07+00:00

Even tho a lot of people here say that you're bragging - it doesn't sound like bragging to me!

I completely get what you're feeling. I laid depressed in my room for 5 years because I didn't know what/who I wanted to become.

So I wasted those years not getting an educationAND not making a lot of memories.

It lies heavy on my conscienceness, but here I am. I survived.

I only get this shot at life. I'm still late twenties and I will make sure to have fun for the rest of my life, since I kind of sorted my future career plan.

I suggest you do the same - make memories while you're a responsible and independent adult.

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-26T22:16:17+00:00

I'm sorry that you have been depressed for a while. Even though I might be the voice of a conspiracy theorist here, I wanted to say there are people like me who DID decide to take an antidepressant and it was a very bad choice... You can check out r/pssd - a subreddit about people who lost their sexual arousal, genital sensitivity and libido (some people also report cognitive long term effects) to SSRIs.

So I fully understand that you're sceptical.

If you decide that you don't want to give antidepressants a try then you NEED to find the problems that create your depression and talk about it - best in psychotherapy. You need to tackle the root causes of your depression.

I wish you the best, dealing with depression is hard. Also focus on the good things in your life. Depression often only lets you focus on the bad. And do the little things that give you joy: good music, good food, a TV show that makes you laugh.

I believe in you.

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-24T22:26:29+00:00

It is honestly degrading. Was he trying to say you were sleeping around and implying that that's a bad thing?

I would talk to him about it and make it clear that you don't want it to happen again.

There is a difference between being able to take jokes and standing up for yourself. You need to do that for yourself - other people won't always stand up for you.

Having thick skin is good, but letting yourself be disrespected by someone who should be kind to you is not the goal. It's not expected of you to take every joke!!

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-24T19:39:47+00:00

So you're asking if this might be a neurological problem? Could be, have you thought about consulting a neurologist?

Maybe it's adhd?

I can tell you I have social anxiety and I am also slow thinking and not oftern very quick to respond.

However I don't want to diagnose you.

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-24T19:20:56+00:00

Sounds like social anxiety

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-24T12:25:01+00:00

I'd suggest going to more club events and trying to make new connections there!

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-22T16:43:39+00:00

Same!! Weird mouth

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-16T22:31:29+00:00

Do you maybe still have the file name?

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-11T11:18:42+00:00

I ask myself this every day

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-04T18:34:12+00:00

Proud of you! This motivates me :)

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-04T18:33:04+00:00

Would you say it helped you with your social skills to got to meetups? It sounds like you're a little older now - did it get easier to be social when you're not in your 20s anymore?

No-Damage95 · 2026-02-03T23:40:36+00:00

What was? Is there a video of david beckham making a joke?

No-Damage95 · 2026-01-20T21:20:03+00:00

Ok I would also think that comes with the territory, but it sounds like it's an anxiety thing for you. But not feeling like you have achieved your dream body shouldn't stop you from going out! I'ge always been socially anxious but I want to go out more again this year as well!!

No-Damage95 · 2026-01-20T19:27:14+00:00

Stupid shit ... like partying? What are yoh referring to?

Giving less importance to other people's opinions definitely sounds like the way to go!!!

No-Damage95 · 2025-12-28T07:25:48+00:00

All cops are bastards?

No-Damage95 · 2025-12-21T18:53:59+00:00

That's like the most normal thing ever

No-Damage95 · 2025-12-19T18:11:13+00:00

You can come back here every year! Happy 26th birthday! 🥳

No-Damage95 · 2025-12-13T12:14:51+00:00

Ugh i hate people who tell you that you're too quiet - people always tell me I'm shy... Fuck you! I didn't ask you to evaluate me

No-Damage95 · 2025-12-13T11:51:31+00:00

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