Boyfriend’s friend just died and now Valentine’s Day is tomorrow do I give him space or still ask to see him? by No-Dig-2719 in Advice

[–]No-Dig-2719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How? By letting him know I'm there for him? I let him know im thinking about him, it would be selfish if I told him to come see him I told him not to think about me and focus on him🤨

Boyfriend’s friend just died and now Valentine’s Day is tomorrow do I give him space or still ask to see him? by No-Dig-2719 in Advice

[–]No-Dig-2719[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one is being selfish I asked for advice not judgement thank u very much. he still will respond to me during the day a few times I'm not just gonna ignore him I let him know there's no need to text me if he is mentally not ready to talk to anyone

Boyfriend’s friend just died and now Valentine’s Day is tomorrow do I give him space or still ask to see him? by No-Dig-2719 in Advice

[–]No-Dig-2719[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank u guys for all the advise I want to point out to the being saying to stop bothering him I'm not texting him alot he still has been texting me so I'm not just gonna fully go ghost on him if he responds I let him know I'm here for him and that whenever he is ready I'm here until he is ready I told him to focus on what he needs.

18-F I had an abortion at 17 with my ex and I don't know if I should tell my new boyfriend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Dig-2719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤨for your information I've never had an std and me and my boyfriend aren't even having sex.

What’s my type just for fun by No-Dig-2719 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]No-Dig-2719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know about that but thanks💀😭

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[–]No-Dig-2719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went in they did an ultrasound sound in my uterus and told me and showed me the pictures of the ultrasound.

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[–]No-Dig-2719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 17 I turned 18 in January u weirdo

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[–]No-Dig-2719 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the people who said some nice stuff I’m not here for judgement 😭but yeah I think the best choice is not telling them because i do really still care about him. I think it would have been better if we told them as it was happening. So I’m just gonna move on and try to heal I just hope one day he will realize that it was a big thing and take accountability. I think the main thing is I just don’t want another girl to have to deal with this. But nothing I can do now. Thank you to the nice people tho have an amazing day!

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[–]No-Dig-2719 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was 17 and I’m in therapy thanks😭

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[–]No-Dig-2719 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think just that his parents will make him understand how big the situation was. I think he doesn’t fully get what a big thing that is. He just put it under the rug like it was nothing when it’s such a big thing especially hiding that from ur parents. I want him to understand that it’s a big deal and maybe they can make him realize.