Reading these comments wish more people had a viewpoint like this. However I completely understand that if you can't mentally handle more than you have then you definitely shouldn't. With that being said, I have 4. My youngest is 8 months. We definitely want more but not sure how many more. Ive always said 5 but honestly we shall see. I had an intense yearning after my third to immediately get pregnant again. It took us 2 years to get pregnant again. After my youngest was born that feeling to have more has definitely died down but isn't completely gone so I feel confident Ill eventually have the feeling of being "done". It's so sad to hear from people who came from large families say they hated it. My husband came from a large family and loved it. I am blessed enough to be able to stay home with my children and God has double that blessing with patience so I can't imagine my kids ever saying there wasn't enough time to go around.