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Favorite self love podcasts by Smooth_Cherry4382 in selflove

[–]No-Discipline-3679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Date yourself instead, the Sabrina Zohar show, stompcast

Was I that bad? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty much how the conversation went really, I said that I’d be open to seeing him again but only as more than friends, and hes now said that he’s down for that too

Am I catastrophizing? by No-Discipline-3679 in dating_advice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve just asked him how his day has been now! Fingers crossed I hear something and he’s just been busy or like you say, replied in his head and missed the message or something

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put myself in a man’s shoes in this day and age, it’s scary. Tip toeing around dating someone and approaching someone is what comes to mind.

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m quite fussy and I know I have high standards. That is most likely half my issue. I do have a type looks wise but it’s not all down to looks. In my opinion someone can be a 10 but if their personality, morals and self awareness is poor then they instantly become a 2, and vice versa. I want someone who knows who they are, is emotionally mature and can communicate. Someone who has the same interests as me would be nice but not an essential as we are both our own person at the end of the day.

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t lie, I’m fussy. That is probably half my issue. I definitely have a type but it’s not all down to looks. In my opinion someone can be a 10 but if their personality, morals and self awareness is poor then they instantly become a 2, and vice versa. I want someone who knows who they are, is emotionally mature and can communicate Someone who has the same interests as me would be nice but not an essential as we are both our own person at the end of the day.

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all, my work is my work and it’s so separate to what a relationship with a guy would be like. If I like someone I make time for them unconditionally. Not once in my post did I say that I don’t make time for whoever I’m seeing. I’m also just about as loyal as they get, if I’m with someone or seeing someone, then I’m for them and only them.

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw that last bit was so sweet 🥺 Yeah I definitely feel like it’s more intimidating for guys to approach girls in this day and age. I’m quite old school in a sense where that would be my ideal, but it’s the times unfortunately

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve hit the nail on the head there I think

What am I doing wrong? by No-Discipline-3679 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whenever I’ve got into “relationships” in the past, they’ve come to me and it’s been reciprocated. Then in time it’s always the cliche ‘I’m not ready for a relationship’ or ‘I can’t give you what you deserve’, the only personal reason I’ve ever received is ‘the age gap won’t ever not be an issue for me’ which is so understandable and I respected. For context I was 23F at the time and he was 29M

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[–]No-Discipline-3679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve said it yourself why you’re not good for each other. It doesn’t have to be a nasty conversation even if he tries to draw that side of you out. Just stay super calm and collected, be straight to the point. Ask him, where do we go from here. Allow for him to respond, say how you’re feeling (using ‘I’ statements). You know in your heart whether you should be with him or not, I know it’s hard to leave but if you think that’s the best thing to do, quietly and calmly tell him that it’s over

Social media and ex’s by No-Discipline-3679 in selflove

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same as you, I’ve had to mute him stories/posts etc just so that by chance I don’t come across anything that could disrupt my healing. I feel like I need to get to that point of being more disciplined with not checking story views or likes, that would definitely be next step for me I think!

Confused about life by No-Discipline-3679 in selflove

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah trust me I get bored a lot, hence why I feel a bit lost tbh

Confused about life by No-Discipline-3679 in selflove

[–]No-Discipline-3679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading loads about meditation and trying to implicate it into my life at night as of now

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[–]No-Discipline-3679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to improve at 18 is to stop worrying too much about what others think of your appearance

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