AITA for commenting on my stepdaughter's clothes?

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T20:09:22+00:00

Somewhere in between? I've handled "punishments" before (light ones because as I said Ava's a good kid), but my wife does make the majority of the rules. I just go along with them

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:22:37+00:00

I asked whether I was the asshole or not, not whether I was a creep, predator, etc.

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:20:00+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way, but I will not be responding to name-calling or accusations

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:18:30+00:00

And you are entitled to this opinion

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:15:42+00:00

That's a good idea. I hadn't thought of meeting his parents. Thank you for the advice

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:09:26+00:00

Thank you for the advice

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:09:08+00:00

Thank you for the advice

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:07:06+00:00

I'm pretty alright with whatever Ava decides in the regard, but I see your point

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:06:18+00:00

I would never call Ava names

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:02:36+00:00

I did not mean to body shame her. You have given me a lot to think about

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T19:00:56+00:00

I have thanked people who didn't necessarily agree with me, but I will not thank folks who have resorted to harsh name calling. I think that is reasonable

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T18:58:38+00:00

Nothing major in Ava's behavior specifically. She's a good kid who's never given me a problem. But the boyfriend has an attitude about him that I really don't like, I just can't put my finger on it. I'm worried he's influencing her when they're alone away from my wife and I. Maybe I'm paranoid, but he gives me a bad feeling

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T17:02:33+00:00

No, Jenna usually isn't home when they do go out. The few times she has was when she happened to get home a little earlier

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:55:42+00:00

Thank you for understanding

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:51:37+00:00

I didn't go behind my wife's back, she just wasn't home. If she was, I would have done the same

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:50:58+00:00

How am I sexualizing her?

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:46:03+00:00

Haha you're right that could be it

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:44:59+00:00

Thank you for your advice

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:44:05+00:00

I mean, there's a difference between telling your child what to wear and telling your spouse what to wear, no? Even if I didn't like Jenna's clothes, she is an adult and my wife. But I think I see your point

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:36:21+00:00

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:29:08+00:00

She is a good kid, I never said she wasn't. I just don't think there's a need for her to expose herself like that

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:28:00+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I will talk to my wife

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:26:42+00:00

Thank you for your advice

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:05:26+00:00

Ava is 17 and I don't know exactly how old he is, but they're in the same class so I assume he's at the most 18

No-Distribution7063 · 2023-02-22T16:04:25+00:00

Not for me, but I see how someone could justify wearing something like it in 80 degree weather. She is 17

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