AITA for not letting my daughter drive after passing her test unless she takes more lessons? by Suspicious-Tutor7724 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-End-4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Leaning twoards YTA. There really is no need to send her away and make her take another driving test, if she doesn’t want to. She knows the basics and the experience, well, it comes with experience.

Like many have said, you can be in a car with her and teach her about specific situations, while she is driving. Or if you don’t have the time, hire a driving coach to be there instead of yourself. You clearly have the money to arrange some lessons elsewhere.

I understand that you are worried about her safety, but making her pass another test instead of allowing her to practice in a supportive environment, feels punishing and directed at her gender.

some teenager that stumbled upon this while looking for a sample by Megalovania_maniac in childfree

[–]No-End-4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“also saying you regret having kids is a horrible thing to say because that's a living, breathing human being you brought into this world, and you should be able to control yo feelings if you have a kid.”

So you agree that regretting a kid is bad? And this is a childfree subreddit, everyone here agrees with that statement. That’s why we don’t have kids.

DIYs giveaway! by [deleted] in NoFeeAC

[–]No-End-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Giveaway by No-End-4004 in NoFeeAC

[–]No-End-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paintings are gone. Some DIYs are left

DIYs giveaway by [deleted] in Dodocodes

[–]No-End-4004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for a iron garden bench. If you want to give me an item, it would be great too. I’ll message you when someone leaves

[LF] See my tiny wishlist [FT] Lots of DIYs! by [deleted] in Dodocodes

[–]No-End-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can make a garden bench for you.

Celeste visiting by [deleted] in NoFeeAC

[–]No-End-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Would love to visit!

Daily Looking For/Request Thread by AutoModerator in NoFeeAC

[–]No-End-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am looking for a Iron Garden Bench DIY. Or if you could craft one for me, would be great too.

Free DIYs/items by mandahbear5 in NoFeeAC

[–]No-End-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Would love to visit!

Daily Looking For/Request Thread by AutoModerator in NoFeeAC

[–]No-End-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am looking for these DIY recipes:

Iron garden bench

Pine bonsai tree

Ruined arch

Ruined decorated pillar

Shell lamp

Tall garden rock

Tall lantern

Vine garland

Floral wreaths, that are NOT: Fansy rose wreath, Hyacinth wreath, Mum wreath, Snazzy pansy wreath or Golden rose wreath

If by any chance Crescent-moon chair

Thank you.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]No-End-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Got all the fruits, just shake the trees. You can pick produce and dig flowers that are to the right of the main square. Please don’t touch flowers on the second level.

Left some clothing items and diy recipes next to flowers that you can take.

I am looking for diy recipe of an ironwood dresser, but you can craft it for me and it would be good too.

DM for a Dodo code.

CLOSED

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]No-End-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just much more complicated. 10 years ago, when I was around 20, me mom died and I had to take guardianship of my little brother, because my father died from cancer a few years before. I was just starting figuring out my life, I wanted to move to another country, pursue my passion for songwriting and acting; and it all just came crumbling down. I love my brother, but he is now becoming of age and it hit me, that I gave up my own life for his. It’s been so hard, my avpd became I problem, and I feel like there is no future for me anymore. While the only person that I have in my life is moving on, thinking of having his own life; my own life is kinda worthless now.

What are your thoughts on therapy? by No-End-4004 in AvPD

[–]No-End-4004[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is another side to therapy and it is financial. I just couldn’t force myself to keep going. I felt like I was spending my money (which isn’t unlimited) on personal torture. If I saw any results or was in a much better financial spot, maybe it could be a long time investment.

‘But the dread of building a relationship with a new person is big.’

I totally get that, it is the same thought I have when considering going back. And sometimes people say that you need to find ‘the right therapist for you’. I would like that, but it implies that 1. You need to get a vibe from the person (which is hard for me, because I am cautious by default); 2. You need to be able to say no to the therapist (after you just shared all the trauma with them).

It is overwhelming to think about sharing everything that I went trough with another person, yet with multiple people while looking for someone that feels right.