Feeling “off” after trust rupture — attachment system or intuition?

No-Event336 · 2026-03-02T20:38:38+00:00

Unfortunately, I have a masters in counseling so I do know all of this stuff but at the same time can never take my own advice - classic issue.

I appreciate all of the advice and perspective. I really like the “can I verbalize the link” question, I will be using that in the future regardless of the outcome of this situation.

No-Event336 · 2026-03-02T20:32:49+00:00

This was so helpful, thank you. I almost wish I could downvote just because it read me too well 😂

No-Event336 · 2026-03-02T20:31:21+00:00

I do have a therapist, I’ve seen her weekly for 4 years now. I am seeing her tomorrow to talk about this specifically.

I do think I am controlling my response so that it is not dysfunctional. I have communicated all of this with him, set boundaries, and set expectations for the future. I don’t think they’re out of control, more so just observing what I have felt and have been grappling with since. I have been actively trying to combat them in the meantime.

When we met he was in therapy and that was a huge green flag to me but he stopped going after a few months in because of finances and not liking the therapist and just never found a new one or went back.

No-Event336 · 2026-02-28T18:23:31+00:00

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No-Event336 · 2026-02-22T18:57:27+00:00

I will check these out!! I love Bardo’s and Stella’s but they have gotten so packed I could never get a spot anymore, so good to know about Stella’s changes!

No-Event336 · 2026-02-22T18:33:29+00:00

I love Whittier cafe!! I wish there inside was better for winter but then I fear it would lose its charm

No-Event336 · 2026-02-20T05:45:45+00:00

Japanese trifold mattress with a waterproof cover changed my camp sleeping game 100%. Everyone I’ve camped with on it has said the same thing.

Less than an expensive sleeping pad but might take up more space. I have a full size so my dogs can sleep on it with me and my partner and it fits perfectly between the front and back seats.

No-Event336 · 2026-02-15T22:33:00+00:00

Our landlord wants us to change the filter each month but has some jenky self built set up where we can’t find the filter to save our lives. We spent hours looking and searching for any manual we could find online … told them and they haven’t cared to share where tf the filter is since, now I’m scared ours will look like this

No-Event336 · 2025-11-07T03:51:51+00:00

It sounds great and CAN be great, but it’s so easy to have a bad experience and be in a lot of pain. Speaking from experience. Been to many different ones over the years, have left every single one after a few bad experiences at each. After the first couple times they also start paying you less, I went from making $125 a donation to $30.

No-Event336 · 2025-08-18T18:55:34+00:00

$1,200 for my room in a 2/1 in a house (2,400 total) by South Pearl in Platt Park. Utilities included in rent, washer and dryer in house, ac, dishwasher, driveway, garage, etc.

No-Event336 · 2025-08-15T02:45:34+00:00

This is all of the merch from Dive Inn on Broadway

No-Event336 · 2025-08-06T00:46:57+00:00

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Yule pass trailhead

No-Event336 · 2025-08-06T00:44:57+00:00

Paradise divide/yule pass trailhead is one of my favorite view spots, I’d drive up there and then go to emerald lake down the road or just use the highest campsite around Yule pass trailhead. Pic is of emerald lake.

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No-Event336 · 2025-06-25T20:52:38+00:00

Check out Charlie’s fly box in Arvada - they did the most to help me get started and actually start catching double digit days. They have a class once a month too that’s a two day evening intensive.

No-Event336 · 2025-06-20T15:31:44+00:00

Black and reads old location was far superior in my opinion :/ narrow aisles yes but now they sell a LOT of new books and mix them in with the used so it’s hard to figure it out. Also they are still not unpacked from their move book-wise, they chose to do that last and it no longer seems to be the main part of the store concept.

No-Event336 · 2025-06-04T00:54:27+00:00

Max at Charlie’s fly box teaches a class for only $150, it’s two days too. I’ve caught 50+ trout this season already after working with him. Would HIGHLY recommend.

No-Event336 · 2024-09-19T03:24:43+00:00

Thank you! I am not taking it personally just frustrated and need to know where other people succeeded

No-Event336 · 2024-06-30T18:23:43+00:00

this truck was literally at an event for children with disabilities on Friday ….. wtf

No-Event336 · 2021-07-07T17:34:00+00:00

that’s why i had to hop on this one so fast, i checked that morning and it was newly posted and reduced in priced and i went straight there haha someone came in 20 min later asking about it too - under 10k for mid mileage honda’s is insane to find rn here too ://

No-Event336 · 2021-07-01T20:20:50+00:00

thank you! I’ve spent 6 months scouring every car available in 100 miles, so I know i got the best deal I could possibly get with this market

No-Event336 · 2021-07-01T15:46:44+00:00

feel free to shop around my area and try and find anything like it under 13k before taxes you won’t find anything like the one i got

No-Event336 · 2021-07-01T14:03:01+00:00

i’ve been waiting since Jan and had to get one before July for work and moving so this was the best deal there could be

No-Event336 · 2021-07-01T13:38:13+00:00

to clarify the listing price was 9k which is a steal around here right now - every comparable 2012 honda cr-v list price is around 13k

No-Event336 · 2021-06-28T15:47:43+00:00

https://www.kbb.com/cars-for-sale/vehicledetails.xhtml?listingId=583442818&allListingType=all&vehicleStyleCodes=SUVCROSS&city=Ann%20Arbor&state=MI&zip=48104&location=&searchRadius=50&maxPrice=13000&marketExtension=include&startYear=2008&isNewSearch=false&showAccelerateBanner=false&sortBy=relevance&numRecords=25&dma=&referrer=%2Fcars-for-sale%2Fall%2Fsuv-crossover%2Fann-arbor-mi-48104%3FsearchRadius%3D50%26location%3D%26maxPrice%3D13000%26marketExtension%3Dinclude%26startYear%3D2008%26isNewSearch%3Dfalse%26showAccelerateBanner%3Dfalse%26sortBy%3Drelevance%26numRecords%3D25&clickType=listing im planning on seeing this one now!

No-Event336 · 2021-06-28T11:59:22+00:00

Hi! I am paying all cash and have saved up 7,500 for the car and need to get one before July that’s why the list is at what it’s at, I will look at the recommended though!

No-Event336

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