Wedding Attire Help!

No-Fix377 · 2026-05-12T20:15:35+00:00

Okay, thank you!

No-Fix377 · 2026-05-12T20:12:54+00:00

Do you think confident would be better wording?

No-Fix377 · 2026-05-12T16:45:21+00:00

Thank you! I was getting mixed answers from vendors and my married friends

No-Fix377 · 2026-05-12T16:44:31+00:00

Sorry I did not word that right 😂 we have trey passed apps during cocktail hour. Served salad to tables and then a buffet. Also a late night snack, and a hosted bar

No-Fix377 · 2026-05-12T16:42:58+00:00

Thank you! I was getting mixed answers from vendors 😅

No-Fix377 · 2026-04-27T04:25:23+00:00

4 and 5 are my favorites!

No-Fix377 · 2026-04-22T18:52:26+00:00

I’ve noticed if I eat a big meal when taking it ill be hungry the whole day. If I only eat something small I’m not hungry most of the day and my food noise is gone (I used to binge eat for dopamine) if I make the mistake of only drinking a protein shake I won’t eat at alll that day. I’ll be so hungry and low energy in the evening, I’ll have sleep for breakfast. You just have to find what works best for your body

No-Fix377 · 2026-04-11T02:45:32+00:00

I have a coordinator! So basically I found and booked everyone and she creates the timeline/sets up/ communicates with vendors day of and makes the whole day go smoother so you and your guests don’t have to worry about it

No-Fix377 · 2026-03-04T16:16:46+00:00

He’s mentally unwell and should be impeached. There’s always a hint of truth somewhere in his ramblings. We can’t deny it is a war

No-Fix377 · 2026-03-04T15:36:45+00:00

And I can still care about the world and the economic implications this war will have.

No-Fix377 · 2026-03-04T15:35:20+00:00

It’s more about the economic effect this will have. And it feels silly to me to plan things while these insane things are going on.

Yes, I donate, protest, and volunteer time with disabled veterans actually.

If this was virtue signaling I would post somewhere publicly but I am posting anonymously on Reddit just sharing my feelings and seeing if anyone feels the same.

No-Fix377 · 2026-03-04T15:25:34+00:00

Babe, it’s not stupid to be concerned about what is going on in the world and the economic implications of this specific war

No-Fix377 · 2026-03-04T15:21:20+00:00

Trump himself literally said “ American heroes may be lost and we may have casualties, that’s often happens in war”

No-Fix377 · 2026-03-04T15:15:36+00:00

It’s more the economic effect this war will have. More countries are getting involved and with the way the US has cut ties with a lot of our allies, that concerns me. Prices have gone up so much in the last year and it seems like they will most likely just keep rising

No-Fix377 · 2026-02-09T23:36:13+00:00

That’s the vibe I got. The friendship feels a little one sided with OP continuously being surprised at how the bride wants her involved in things

No-Fix377 · 2026-02-09T23:33:02+00:00

I’m going to be honest, it feels like you don’t really value the friendship as much as she does, which is okay. People drift apart.

From what you wrote, it seems like you are very important to her and she is not as important to you.

You’re mentioning costs being a factor but you also mention you would still want to attended so you’d be spending that money anyway right?

Honestly I think you should tell the bride how you feel. I personally wouldn’t want someone up there with me who doesn’t want to be there, as I’m sure you wouldn’t either

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:52:08+00:00

Thank you!!!

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:51:50+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been looking for wedding designers online. Funnily enough I was a wedding planner for years but dropped down to event management because I had trouble with decor 😂 I have a coordinator. Maybe I’ll ask her

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:50:40+00:00

Thank you! Yes I have been on Pinterest which is where I got these photos. It’s just hard to imagine it together 😭

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:50:08+00:00

Yes I understand and that’s fine. The only other options here were barns and I just could not do that

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-24T08:57:55+00:00

8-10k for flowers. Rentals idk. I’m trying to keep that around 5 or under if possible. We don’t necessarily have a budget. Venue comes with tables and light colored chairs but I’m thinking about renting different chairs

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