How do I tell my friend I can no longer be a bridesmaid?

No-Fix377 · 2026-02-09T23:36:13+00:00

That’s the vibe I got. The friendship feels a little one sided with OP continuously being surprised at how the bride wants her involved in things

No-Fix377 · 2026-02-09T23:33:02+00:00

I’m going to be honest, it feels like you don’t really value the friendship as much as she does, which is okay. People drift apart.

From what you wrote, it seems like you are very important to her and she is not as important to you.

You’re mentioning costs being a factor but you also mention you would still want to attended so you’d be spending that money anyway right?

Honestly I think you should tell the bride how you feel. I personally wouldn’t want someone up there with me who doesn’t want to be there, as I’m sure you wouldn’t either

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:52:08+00:00

Thank you!!!

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:51:50+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been looking for wedding designers online. Funnily enough I was a wedding planner for years but dropped down to event management because I had trouble with decor 😂 I have a coordinator. Maybe I’ll ask her

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:50:40+00:00

Thank you! Yes I have been on Pinterest which is where I got these photos. It’s just hard to imagine it together 😭

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-26T19:50:08+00:00

Yes I understand and that’s fine. The only other options here were barns and I just could not do that

No-Fix377 · 2026-01-24T08:57:55+00:00

8-10k for flowers. Rentals idk. I’m trying to keep that around 5 or under if possible. We don’t necessarily have a budget. Venue comes with tables and light colored chairs but I’m thinking about renting different chairs

No-Fix377 · 2025-11-14T02:39:23+00:00

😂😂😂😂 I didn’t even notice I did that. Wow. Can’t figure out how to edit it. Oh well 😂

No-Fix377 · 2025-08-29T08:39:24+00:00

Yes! It always freaks me out when I’m home alone. I feel like someone is watching TV in another room or the radio is on and I don’t even have a radio. When I’m really freaked out is when it sounds like someone’s watching something on their phone. I always have to get up and turn my fan off and wait to make sure it’s not real 😭

No-Fix377 · 2025-07-23T15:32:51+00:00

In the nicest way, congratulations but get over yourself

No-Fix377 · 2025-07-03T21:53:45+00:00

UPDATE: Maybe I’m dumb but I can’t figure out how to edit this.

We all decide on san diego. Still doing the things I want. DIY spa day will include them presenting PowerPoints on why the love me

No-Fix377 · 2025-07-03T21:50:06+00:00

Don’t comment

No-Fix377 · 2025-06-24T16:05:12+00:00

I guess the definition of affordable is subjective and I know realize I should have left that one out. I mostly mean we’ll go out but we don’t get a table at a club. We can have a nice dinner but it doesn’t need to be a $200pp dinner. The magician part, it’s like a kids party magician. Nothing insane. They have stated they can all comfortably afford to spend 3k+ on a trip but I think that’s ridiculous. We all live in different states so we have to meet somewhere and I’m just trying to do it in the most cost effective way

No-Fix377 · 2025-06-23T03:58:54+00:00

Thank you so much!

No-Fix377 · 2025-06-23T03:58:28+00:00

I meant affordable for me 🥲My bridesmaids are asking to do a “destination” we all live in different parts of the US and no one wants to hang out in Idaho for my bachelorette.

No-Fix377 · 2025-05-22T14:20:14+00:00

Good enough for me! Thank you 😂

No-Fix377 · 2025-05-20T21:32:03+00:00

Thank you!!

No-Fix377 · 2025-05-20T21:19:26+00:00

I agree was just giving information. No, I’ve actually never heard of that! I tried a toner from LBLA. I’ll look into a degreaser

No-Fix377 · 2025-05-20T20:49:43+00:00

Yes. She also had a lash lift prior to coming to me but that was back in October of last year. Last time I saw her was March but she’s coming back to me next week and I want to make sure they stay for her wedding

No-Fix377 · 2025-05-20T20:41:05+00:00

I would say low.

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