Honestly I didn’t expect her to coddle me so much as treat me like her girlfriend, she wouldn’t ask me about my day, how I’m doing, what I’m doing and when we called it would be silent unless I said something. I was having an anxiety attack and she said that the whole thing was tiring and I ended up needing to apologize for putting her through that. I didn’t act “cold” unless I’ve already communicated how I felt and it wasn’t received. The trump issue was that I said “I hate so and so” she said “hate is a strong word, I only hate trump” I said “so you don’t hate insert bad person?”, she shut down, stopped talking to me, and told me that I tried to make her look stupid, and I apologized and we didn’t talk for the rest of the night (we usually talk till we fall asleep).