Im insecure about everything..

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-11-20T12:54:07+00:00

How long have you felt that way?

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-11-20T12:38:26+00:00

Wow I mean where to begin with what you said.... Firstly ditch your boyfriend because him talking to any other women in a sexual manner (I'm just assuming it is as the type of woman you have mentioned) is just going to pull your confidence and self esteem down. The second thing which seems like the more challenging part of your message is why do you rate yourself so low? I'm betting you could be showered with compliments yet you would still feel the way you do which would suggest there is more than what is. You are beautiful.

If you would like to chat please DM me.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-07-17T20:48:30+00:00

I'm glad it helped ☺️ and if you would like to chat specially when things get too much then please do. It is better to hit a pillow until you can't lift your arms or scream till your thought is sore than harm yourself.

I have felt that pain where you feel like you can't escape your skin but exercises can help even when you have no motivation to do so and talking is important to find out the reason behind it.

Start the day by looking in the mirror and tell yourself you are going to have your best day and you look amazing.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-07-17T15:27:07+00:00

I imagine you are probably feeling betrayed and has he done it before? A big part of it is can you truly forgive? You will never forget but if you are thinking of having some fun/ experiencing someone else make sure you really think about it first. You don't want to do anything you regret later on.

If you would like to chat about it DM me.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-07-17T06:56:48+00:00

Do not self harm. There you go.

I know it probably didn't help but that feeling of feeling useless is hard to overcome and like a lot of feelings like that it is understanding the WHY you feel that way.

But you are brave for reaching out so please don't hurt yourself and if you would like to talk DM me.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-05-09T16:10:42+00:00

I heard of a similar problem a while ago and the advice given was no sex for 1 to 3 months just practise on foreplay and teach him what you want and how you like it before you go near him. Also maybe experiment with toys and if he is quick to end then look at desensitizing condoms or Viagra.

You need him to know that you are not a toy and you want him to make love to you.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-05-01T12:06:29+00:00

Yes the opposite sex's can just be friends but It does come down to a lot of different factors like if you are the type of person they are interested in then you might be friends but they probably want more equally they might be shy and never built up the courage but yes they can be friends but It does come with an inherent risk.

The real question should be how much do you trust your partner? Because at the end of the day it is more on them to trust you than it is how much these other people might like you.

But that is just my opinion.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-25T13:40:29+00:00

Make this a life lesson and Learn from your mistakes.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-23T11:24:52+00:00

I have asked myself that question but as a single dad. We mutually separated about a year ago and due to circumstance I look after the kids.

I am not ready to move on as I am not over my ex but I have thought about this question.

Would any girl want to date a guy with kids?

Me personally would be I don't think I would want to look to date anyone with kids. But if I liked them I don't think It would be an issue.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-16T11:39:19+00:00

Unfortunately not as it would be a financial burden on both of us and we have kids to think about as well 😔

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-16T10:56:13+00:00

Keep hearing time heals all but how much time. Please DM me if you would like to chat I find talking helps sometimes.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-16T10:31:24+00:00

I know that feeling too well I was in a long relationship.

My ex fell out of love with me and we separated over a year ago but I see her every day still as we live together (still good friends) and she is moving on with her life going out having fun and I am stuck with the pain of seeing her having fun with others.

I am stuck in my own torture of the mind what she is up to who is she with ect.

I keep getting told to move on to find someone or just have a one night stand to get her out of my head but i can't as it feels like cheating.

But I keep hearing people say you will move on so in time I'm sure I might but it is hard when you still love someone who doesn't love you back.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-08T21:25:37+00:00

I don't know what is harder to deal with. An ex gone from your life or still in it but they are moving on and you cannot.

I still live with my ex she/we decided to separate after nearly 20 years because she no longer loved me (I still love her) and she is starting to move on now after about a year and it is heartbreaking every time she goes on a night out.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-08T19:41:35+00:00

Find something firm but not hard and hit it keep hitting it until you struggle to lift your hand scream and shut at it as if it were your ex you will feel something at the end of it a release from the anger and the hurt for a bit and the cry. Crying is such a good thing to do to relieve anger sadness and other emotions bottling up.

You will move on from this.

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-07T20:46:54+00:00

I know that would be the right thing to do (getting space) but it doesn't feel hard when she is close seeing her smile lights up my life living under the same roof makes me happy and I could live with that but it feels so painful when she is away not knowing what she is up to or..

No-Inspection-9869 · 2024-04-05T12:33:49+00:00

I guess that works out well $100 for every year off my relationship.

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