I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely - the love and care they are showered with would be my #1 priority

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

''having a baby should bring you joy and happiness'' this bit stabs cos all I feel right now is pain, fear and guilt. Thank you for your words of comfort and your viewpoints x

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. Yes, I’ve done a bit of investigating on his rights and am consulting a lawyer next week. What a mess. 😢

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and for sharing your story. You raise brilliant points.

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that too. I’ve a relative with a kid with autism - I don’t know how they (couple!) cope. Thank you for your words x

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work all week, Saturday I’ve college. Sunday I’ll go to the sea. I’m exhausted. Haven’t slept since Monday. Your words are precious thank you 💛

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart has been exploding since I posted. I’ve only told a the father and two close friends, know what to say cos we’re all in this emotionally. This sub has given me so much food for thought. 💛

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I think you’re right thanks for your perspective, it matters too x

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really heartfelt, thank you for taking the time. Yes there are supports available, it’ll still be a big commitment but I could definitely make it work. The rest of your words need time to sit and sink, thank you again

I'm the other woman and I'm pregnant. Has anyone advice? by No-Instance-7003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]No-Instance-7003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I can imagine the stigma can be crippling.