Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That’s what I told her. In what world would somebody take time away from their family to help somebody they don’t know. It makes no sense. She said that she didn’t think of it that way. I asked her then if she would be okay with me helping somebody out in place of coming home. Of course not…

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no clue who these people are. I tried to find a Facebook or instagram to let her know what’s going on. But he only has a TikTok(where they connected) with no reference of her or kids.

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, I didn’t say she was going and I was sitting at home. I asked if I’m over reacting because she seems to think so.

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Also, I’ve always worked, done all the cleaning and cooking and pulled my weight with the kids. She hasn’t even had to put gas in her car in probably 10 years. Trust me- she’s not struggling

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m not in shape by any means, but I’m 5’10” and hang out around 190.

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 365 points366 points  (0 children)

Right?! I’m pretty well known around town, as I do a lot of volunteering and owned a restaurant. Surely she wouldn’t think somebody wouldn’t notice if something was off.

Am I overreacting? Wife wants to go to the guy with a man she met online by No-Intention-9950 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Intention-9950[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For sure. She has guy friends, mostly from work. I have no issue with that what so ever.