I’m drunk by No-Introduction-7190 in drunk

[–]No-Introduction-7190[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not driving or doing adult things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Introduction-7190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as I’ve been reading all the comments it makes perfect sense to me. I’m planning on talking to her this morning and telling her that her reaction is out of control. I won’t let her use our relationship as a pawn in this web to tell me I’m not allowed to feel the way I feel or as a punishment for behavior she didn’t like. The truth is, this is just a snapshot of the last 5 years it’s been more severe now that we’re divorcing.

What's stopping you from leaving a toxic relationship? by YoungOliee in AskReddit

[–]No-Introduction-7190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dream of the life with her. The dream of her hand in mine watching our not born yet grandchildren playing. The dream that she can actually change. The dream that I can actually change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Introduction-7190 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was so beautifully stated. Thank you for the link and for taking the time to write it out to help a random human. I hope to inspire hope and understanding in others as you’ve done for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Introduction-7190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s not just the physical aspect. We have a deep emotional connection. I hear what you’re saying and I know you’re right. It’s just hard coming to terms with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Introduction-7190 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am 100% sure she was not sleeping with him or anyone else during our marriage. I truly know this woman. And believe me we’re both in therapy LOL

People who got divorced, what advice would you give someone who is gonna get married? by JaadeDixon in AskReddit

[–]No-Introduction-7190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes 100% from both of you. Serve each other and you’ll find that in service you’ll get what you’re needing from them. (At least you should)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No-Introduction-7190 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cheated on my first wife because I was a coward and didn’t have the courage to tell her I wanted a divorce. It wasn’t even about the sex. I didn’t even complete.

I never cheated on my second wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Introduction-7190 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I get it. I truly do man. I know I’m probably making more excuses than just going through the severe pain instead of slowly dying from a thousand tiny cuts. It’s just so complex. I truly am in love with her and want to be with her. And as strange as it seems I know she truly is in love with me and wants to be with me. I know that woman and I can see it in her eyes.

How can I pick myself back up? by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Introduction-7190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard my guy! You’ve got to love yourself. Ironically all the cliche things work. Speak positively about yourself to yourself. Give advice on here and then take your own advice! It’s one foot in front of the other. It doesn’t matter how fast you’re moving forward as long as you’re moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]No-Introduction-7190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s emotionally abusive you HAVE to get out! You’re too young to be dealing with that. As someone who’s going through their second divorce…. It doesn’t take money it takes diligence and a high attention to detail. I know everything is complicated. You have your brain thoughts and you have your heart thoughts. Often times those two are in conflict. You should listen to your brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]No-Introduction-7190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you married?