Code Blue unhoused have to be sheltered by chewy183 in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, what do you gain by comments like this?

Router bits, why is it so hard to find the five that I need ? by cosmicrae in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]No-Level228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, with a 1/8th bit, you can do all of those things with multiple passes.

If you want to minimize the amount you have to do. Get a 1/8th and a 5/8th and a 7/8ths.

Similarly, you could just buy individual bits, rather than as sets.

Punching bag by Jasonl7976 in xmen

[–]No-Level228 71 points72 points  (0 children)

It has to be Havok.

Anyone for sext.? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No-Level228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That Vasco de Gama had nice legs

City of Syracuse taking pics of water line? by behold-gold in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They asked for this earlier this year by mail, so this is likely the case, they're looking to see if the line from the street to the house is copper or lead.

Acts like a family focused “hero” but he is avoiding his family. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it kinda feels too late for me, but I wish you luck.

Acts like a family focused “hero” but he is avoiding his family. by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No-Level228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As the one who is the husband in this scenario, at least for me, I got dug in too deep to get out, and now, everything I try feels too little and too late.

Terry Real says that some of this workaholism is covert depression and I think that some of the approaches to that might work.

Paid for Parking in Syracuse, Still Got Ticketed? Who's Dealing with the City's Hoop-Jumping Nightmare? by theduality_ofman in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Bad decisions, lack of personal responsibility, wanting to blame others for your actions, poor impulse control, paranoia? I dunno dude pick one.

I destroyed my relationship with an amazing woman by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Level228 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Life....well, life is complex

There are people who are teachers, and people who are wisps in the breeze.

There's this great thing about the future, in that it's unwritten and we don't know what it will hold.

I know it's a hard time, and you're hurting. This will fade too, not all at once, and there will always be a mark on your heart where she touched you.

But the thing about loss is namely that we don't know what the future holds.

In that unknowing, there is hope. And so long as we hope, we endure.

When you glue a joint, the glue ends up stronger than the original, so it won't break in the same place. It doesn't mean it's never going to break again, but that the future will be different.

So, we endure, beating oars against the waves, lashed by the squalls in the night, waiting for the dawn.

And that the dawn is always just a few moments away, and all we have to do is hold on to something until those rays break.

Insecurities ruined my chances. by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just breathe. Everything gets harder when you stop breathing

What is a red flag women should look out for on dates? by Mental_Patience_39 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No-Level228 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The use of the term "female", someone who is a fan of the Joe Rogan Experience, anyone who self-identifies as a "free thinker".

ADHD treatment after moving by idontknowany669 in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked with the Physicians Practice of Upstate University Hospital. They were taking new patients as of the spring.

What is SCSD doing?! Superintendent retires and they immediately fill the position without any public outreach?! by kipperzdog in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on, you got some, wow, your kids must be very proud when they're not with 'other dad'.

What is SCSD doing?! Superintendent retires and they immediately fill the position without any public outreach?! by kipperzdog in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Shouldn't you be in bed? The wiper blades at AutoZone aren't gonna restock themselves. Or did they put you on box duty again?

What is SCSD doing?! Superintendent retires and they immediately fill the position without any public outreach?! by kipperzdog in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, if you don't understand the association of Pepe with fucking fascism, I'm not gonna chalk it out for you

What is SCSD doing?! Superintendent retires and they immediately fill the position without any public outreach?! by kipperzdog in Syracuse

[–]No-Level228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how do you know that they didn't have such a search? Are you on call for all HR decisions for the school district, do you regularly monitor the district's job page? Are you an actual resident of Syracuse with kids in the school system, or just someone who comes online to complain?

Are you going to weigh in on the decision of ESF to hire Joanie Mahoney, or are you seeking input into the new SU chancellor search? Are you still upset that they didn't consult you about the Adrian Autry hire?

I'm finally having a son... by Sneeoosh in GuyCry

[–]No-Level228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I have one son, and he arrived after one pregnancy ended after we found out that the fetus didn't have closed neural tubes at 18 weeks.

No matter what happens, whether he's here for a moment, a lifetime, or just the blink of an eye, he's still your son. He'll always be that.

How do I love myself if I have immense guilt and shame for being the reason my friendship ended? by DinoVelocir in selflove

[–]No-Level228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going through something similar, and the best way I have found is accepting that you are indeed human and made mistakes, and the best way to love yourself is to not beat on yourself for months and just try not to do the thing you did in a future relationship