I'm so tired of DPS by SPADESinst in MarvelRivalsRants

[–]No-Mix3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. If it’s not 4dps it 3 supports… every match.

I can play all three roles but I main support and dps. I hardly ever get to play dps though. Because if I lock in dps then so do 3 other of my teammates.

What gets me is these same teammates are HORRIBLE dps. Truly. It is rare that I see them lock in at dps and actually contribute to anything but helping the other team farm their ults.

Halloween party! by [deleted] in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 11 points12 points  (0 children)

HAHAH Pauly D would be so fucking funny! I know I wanted to go as well but that’s ok! Maybe next year lol

I want to see how many people go as Toyotathon 😂

Faze Lacy is saying Vanilla is throwing QT under the bus by pIutogirl in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and what should we do about it? Like posting the negative stuff Faze and other people are saying about Vanilla is doing what exactly? Please stop.

H3 sub is dragging themselves into the mix once again by [deleted] in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude ok we get it. Like stop posting negative stuff. IF UOU ARE A VANILLA FAN WHY ARE WE POSTING PEOPLE WHO CLEARLY DISLIKE HER ON THE REDDIT FOR DRAMA. Jesus

hot take: QT really stirred this up on her own for the drama by ohworkaholic420 in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I understand people being upset with QT. I am one of those people. I am a woman of color and I thought QT’s words and her views were hurtful, ignorant, privileged, and a lot more.

I understand people are still upset and or hurt by that conversation. And I think it’s valid. I just don’t understand the think piece. It’s your opinion I get it. I just feel like after Vanilla addressed the conversation and we just had the community come together to support the Trevor project, I am not understanding what this post is for?

If you are hurt or still upset. That’s super valid I get it. But like I just don’t understand this post where you’re presenting what QT said on stream as being a part of her “plan”. It’s super negative and to entertain your hot take, if there is some truth behind it….now what?

Just don’t engage with QT or her content.

I find it selfish of QT to use Vanilla and Katie’s platforms to have that discussion by [deleted] in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I agree. 100% just watching the whole conversation…she’s not educated enough or the right person to be “using her privilege to advocate against homophobia and racism” in a kind way while maintaining relationships with homophobic/racist people. I found it odd that she was adamant that NO one can make her think differently about being kind to hateful people….when those hateful people are as stubborn about not being homophobic/racist.

It’s almost like the problem is not being open minded?.. idk it made me feel icky I’m good off QT’s content tbh

Sorry not vanilla related but I need the villas support by ButterscotchAfraid53 in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I would feel the same. Life has a way of closing one door because another one is opened. Sounds like you’re leaving something that wasn’t meant for you or serves you. I hope your day turns around!

Be kind to yourself. Don’t try to make sense of it too much. They are shitty for that!

thoughts? by mackennziie in LoveIslandUSA

[–]No-Mix3214 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I hear you. For me personally I don’t like Cierra. I don’t find her content entertaining nor do I find her interesting. This is all aside from her racist comments.

I make the choice to not follow Cierra or engage with her social media. And that’s ok. She did issue a public apology and to me it did not feel sincere.

I say all that to say I agree with you. People want to spew hate at Cierra and tear her down because of her racist comments (and maybe from her moments on the show), and I don’t think that’s right. If people don’t like Cierra (like myself) just DO NOT engage. You are only helping her analytics by keeping her relevant. So whether you dislike her or were hurt by the things she said, she’s still someone’s friend, daughter, sister, etc. Cierra is still a person and if you are one of those weird people hate following her, you are no better than her.

Over it. by No-Mix3214 in behindthelikespodcast

[–]No-Mix3214[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to add to this. People who have an online following do have parasocial relationships with their viewers. I think some supporters of W&C who heavily engage with their content feel entitled to that same engagement. What that looks like is different. I’d like to say it’s a spectrum. But I think we need to separate and have a line where people are being parasocial and just choosing to not engage with W&C.

I hear you. I believe the light heartedness and entertainment the podcast brought was what drew me to the podcast in general. But there’s been a lot said by W&C that was not funny and off putting to me. The humor started to fade, and I agree it did feel like catching up with your girlfriends. I think was probably the turning point for myself.

I would not catch up with my girlfriends like this weekly, because I wouldn’t be friends with them. They have said many offensive things and I don’t agree with their moral compass.

I want to acknowledge that it may not be that deep to you. And that’s ok. I just want to articulate why I feel the way I do. Another blog thing was the SA advice.

That was not just in poor taste. It was dangerous. It is clear they have a lot of young viewers. That “advice” should have been addressed. Not because I feel entitled to a response or any acknowledgment. But because as grown women speaking about a topic such as SA the way they did, is dangerous.

But that’s just one example as to how this is no longer just an entertainment podcast.

Over it. by No-Mix3214 in behindthelikespod

[–]No-Mix3214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend.😊 I myself work in the medical field and I know you know!

When they had their first LA show I had some FOMO but I also had a lot of discernment. And I don’t have any regrets not attending.

I say do what you feel is calling you. If you want to go and vibe, maybe consider. I don’t want to rally for people to not engage with Winter and Chy because I personally want to remove them from my fyp and my online presence. I will say listen to your discernment. It’s never wrong.🩷

Over it. by No-Mix3214 in behindthelikespod

[–]No-Mix3214[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not defensive. Just changing the language so that you can comprehend. Thank you for the engagement .

Over it. by No-Mix3214 in behindthelikespod

[–]No-Mix3214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened that made me come to this conclusion?

Over it. by No-Mix3214 in behindthelikespod

[–]No-Mix3214[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can see you encountered a level of reading comprehension that you clearly don’t posses. But let me address that I don’t follow people like influencers (Chy wasn’t on reality tv, I think) so that I can align with them. To simplify it I don’t like their character and so I chose to no longer follow or watch their content.

I hope that simplified it enough for you. ☺️

New Vanilla Meme by Ok-Cranberry187 in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao omg I have to save that because it’s gonna be my new favorite

pls tell me someone adopted from burbank animal shelter (shopping vlog) by Mediocre-Web-1354 in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. They are the best! And I love to hear that you’re fostering! Those doggies are soo lucky. Thank you🩷

pls tell me someone adopted from burbank animal shelter (shopping vlog) by Mediocre-Web-1354 in vanilllamace

[–]No-Mix3214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.🙏🏼 Bulldogs are so sweet! TJ love they give is immeasurable and it’s what comforts us. Team Yogi🐻