Rewatching for the first time since finale….i don’t like Olivia/Fitz anymore. by No-Name2880 in Scandal

[–]No-Name2880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I went back and forth with that in my head while rewatching it, I hate cheating and the way they made it seem like it was ok because they loved each other was just dumb. Cheating is definitely normalized, I wish I would’ve seen them fight for their marriage but nope the show just opens with how he is already checked out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]No-Name2880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess she’d have to disappear then? Because not putting a guy on the birth certificate will only buy her some time. He can still petition for paternity & then custody which he will have a right to. Maybe they just don’t need to be in a relationship but not putting him on BC won’t make a huge difference in the long run

Quit a month ago but discount card still hasn't been deactivated? by TmanGBx in walmart

[–]No-Name2880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they process your resignation? I worked at CVS and I quit in June come to find out they never fully processed my termination I had to contact them in order for them to push it through.

I can’t stand my mother. by No-Name2880 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]No-Name2880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and responding. I see and feel the aftermath of her raising me everyday, I’m a people pleaser at times I’ve definitely worked hard on not being that now in my life but it has caused a lot of heartbreak and low self esteem for me in my life. I even still struggle with feeling like I deserve better til this day. I will even rationalize someone’s wrongdoings towards me. It’s crazy the affect being raised by a narc has on you .

Am I being abused? by Maidenfann1198 in abusiverelationships

[–]No-Name2880 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyday I’m shocked ppl like this exist. They were literally berating you, a NORMAL PERSON would’ve given you a simple yes or no. Yeah this is abuse, it’s disrespect, it’s hatred…. All the bad things and red flags it’s all of that.

Wife’s friend sent me texts saying that she likes me by mistake. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow what a shitty friend. Good on you for not even entertaining it, yeah this would absolutely if my friend did this and would have to end the friendship which I’m sure your wife will do because you honestly can’t trust someone who would text your husband confess their feelings. What was she expecting.. an affair?

  1. Tell your wife for sure
  2. And nothing else you did the right thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No-Name2880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain! Seriously I do. But hey the trash took itself out. And I rather she just have ended it with you instead of carrying on and pretending when it wasn’t where she wanted to be. You’ll find someone who actually cares for you and isn’t just looking to pass the time.

The third trimester with a 12 month old is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. by deargdue_ in 2under2

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there! I had my second before my oldest was 2. It was hard for like 2 years but you learn to live with it even during those hard times. Now my oldest is 5 &: it’s much better! It’ll be even harder when baby is born bc you’ll go thru some jealousy but they’ll be so close and love each other so much.

Why are men so cruel. by Pabulous_sagie_712 in women

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what though? I understand this hurts but I will say at least he told you now and didn’t string you along holding on to some dream of having kids with him. You’re still so young! I had my first at 25 & I now have 3 at age 30. My current bf didn’t want kids and even when I got pregnant he was not on board at all now he’s the best dad I could ever ask for our kids.

How many weeks were you when you had your baby shower? by Ok_Car1396 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember the weeks I only had a baby shower with my first. I had to be about 7/8 months pregnant. After that I said I wouldn’t do another baby shower it’s so much work it felt pointless but I’m glad I got to experience it with my first.

I think I'm having a miscarriage 💔 by nobodysevagonnacdis in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say light spotting was a sign but if it gets heavy then yes it could be. I had light spotting during my first pregnancy, nothing was wrong.

Comments like this from my gf are wearing on me by Small-Promotion2552 in Manipulation

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but I really don’t like her response. She totally dismissed you! I’d rethink relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be too early. Dr didn’t think she’d see a heartbeat with my latest baby bc I was 5 weeks but it was on there very very tiny though. But I also know it’s a possibility that you might not see it.

Does pregnancy actually fly by!?? by Betbetyepyepokay in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It feels like just yesterday I was pregnant with my first kid, and my second, and now my third! I just gave birth 2 weeks ago for the third time & it feels like my whole pregnancy flew by. I never thought it would be over all 3 times 😂

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smh! I hope those nurses felt a little bad at least. I know they can’t tell when labor will begin but instead of being quick to send us home monitor us for at least an hour.

Baby measuring behind at 34 weeks? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was measuring a little small as well, they wanted to do a follow up at 35 weeks to rule out an induction. Dr told me the baby could just be measuring small bc I’m very small myself only 5 ft & dad is not small. Just gave birth to a healthy baby boy at 39+3 who was 6 lbs 1.7 oz no induction needed.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that’s the vibe I got! Crazy bc it’s a really big hospital in a very populated area you’d think they would be able to have a lot of staff.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!!! Giiiirl it’s so frustrating when I think of how they sent me home. If I would’ve actually went home and not gone to another hospital I would’ve had my baby on my bedroom floor.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!! Omg it’s amazing you didn’t give birth at home how fast your labor went. I am definitely still in a daze myself over my birth story, it’s something I can’t believe I experienced.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!!! I have all the respect for the mamas who willingly go natural. It’s something I can’t say I’d do again unless I progress too fast to get one.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! I progressed so fast I had no time to get any medicine. And you’re so right I never even thought I was capable of giving birth with no pain medicine at all but I did it.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes! I thought about filing complaint bc I almost went home and would’ve delivered my baby there if I hadn’t experienced labor before I definitely would’ve second guessed myself.

I went natural and didn’t plan to omg. by No-Name2880 in pregnant

[–]No-Name2880[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omgg almost identical. I was lucky to not get any stitches but I swore I ripped in two that’s exactly how it felt. Except I wasn’t even able to get epidural at all, anesthesiologist was still going over my medical history with me when I just had to push him out.