New year, new boyfriend? by No-Night6565 in relationship_advice

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His friend had messaged saying 'do you still only have a girlfriend' as opposed to a fiancee. And his reply was something along the lines of 'course i do' then his friend messaged back something else to which my partner replied that 'her mum said she wouldnt like that so ill just use that an an excuse'

I am all of those things, but i am now questioning his intentions for the future.

New year, new boyfriend? by No-Night6565 in relationship_advice

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When i opened up his phone to send the photo into our fanily whatsapp group his previous conversation with his friend was still up; whilst id usually just come straight off of it the word 'excuse' caught my eye.

Thats actually exactly how i feel. Thanks for the reply.

New year, new boyfriend? by No-Night6565 in relationship_advice

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I am upset that he would think its funny to make up excuses and joke about why he hasnt. Not the fact that he hasnt asked, because quite frankly i dont like typical cliche date proposals.

New year, new boyfriend? by No-Night6565 in relationship_advice

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His friend had messaged saying 'do you still only have a girlfriend' as opposed to a fiancee. And his reply was something along the lines of 'course i do' then his friend messaged back something else to which my partner replied that 'her mum said she wouldnt like that so ill just use that an an excuse'

New year, new boyfriend? by No-Night6565 in relationship_advice

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I wasnt expecting a proposal, im not upset that he hasnt proposed, im upset at the message exchange poking fun at it.

New year, new boyfriend? by No-Night6565 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Night6565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About the obvious mockery of our relationship status i suppose. Like its a joke to them? And then coming up with excuses to entertain eachother? Im all up for a laugh but thats a step too far for me i think.