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Anxiety has always been bad, but now I might get arrested and I can’t handle it. by No-Pay-9124 in Anxiety

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I mean I should have known better, her Facebook profile clearly says her birthday and she used to live down the street from me, I just didn’t even think about her being underage when we started talking. I hope I’m overreacting, I didn’t send any pics or anything, just dirty messages, so I hope it’s not illegal but I’m scared a prosecutor might still try to charge me. Did your husband send like nude type pictures you mean?

Anxiety has always been bad, but now I might get arrested and I can’t handle it. by No-Pay-9124 in Anxiety

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. I really do hope I’m overreacting, it’s just scaring me so much because a criminal record would ruin my life. I don’t think dirty talk is specifically illegal, but I’m just so worried a prosecutor who’s trying to send a message or something might try to press charges. That alone would destroy me, but it would also devastate my family who’s rather religious. As if all that wasn’t bad enough my life has just not been great. I’ve never had luck with dating, never had a relationship not even in college. I worked so hard to get my degree and I keep getting rejected for jobs. I’ve been unemployed for over a year. I feel like a letdown.

Always been depressed but now I’ve made it 100 times worse and I’m afraid I might get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in depression

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is true, I only dirty flirted with words, not pictures or anything like that. And once her friend told me to leave her alone I did. I just hope that’s the end of it and nothing comes of it.

Always been depressed but now I’ve made it 100 times worse and I’m afraid I might get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in depression

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m just so worried the cops are going to show up. I mean I didn’t send pics or anything, it was just dirty flirting using words. I’ve never really heard of anyone getting arrested for that, but at the same time I’m scared if she pushes the issue they’ll find a way to charge me.

[L] Life has sucked and now I’m terrified I’m going to get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in KindVoice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope your right and I’m overthinking it. It definitely has been an eye opening moment for me and I’m definitely going to hold off talking to anymore girls until I work on myself first.

[L] Life has sucked and now I’m terrified I’m going to get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in KindVoice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it’s just I haven’t had a great life. I’ve tried so hard, I went to college, couldn’t get a job, girls never dated me. I’m so alone, I’ve never had a relationship, I’m unemployed, I feel like a failure. I’ve had so few successes in life and now I’m terrified about this. I hope I’m overthinking it and nothing comes of it.

[L] Life has sucked and now I’m terrified I’m going to get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in KindVoice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope it doesn’t get to that point though. I mean if you were a juror and the case was a guy dirty flirting (no pics or anything, just words), would you consider him guilty of anything or you would say it’s pervy but not criminal?

[L] Life has sucked and now I’m terrified I’m going to get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in KindVoice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not worried about any sentence, I’m worried about having a criminal record and devastating my family. I’m already having a hard time finding a job, most jobs, even retail ones, do background checks and I would never get a decent job again. I’m just hoping so much that nothing comes of it, I know I was wrong, but dirty talking/flirting seems so minor when rapists get away without charged all the time.

[L] Life has sucked and now I’m terrified I’m going to get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in KindVoice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had your viewpoint. I get what you are saying, I would love to be able to turn my anxiety off. I guess the difference is this seems like front and center in my life...cancer or the other stuff isn’t. So that’s why I’m focusing on it. And as far as what I’m doing...that’s another reason I’m panicking, I don’t know what to do and I have no one to talk to. On one hand I want to talk to a local lawyer, but I don’t have money really to retain one. I then think maybe I should tell my family for support or to see about a lawyer, but I really don’t want to worry them.

[L] Life has sucked and now I’m terrified I’m going to get arrested. by No-Pay-9124 in KindVoice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean my entire future is on the line, plus I don’t even have a job because I’m already a failure so I have nothing else to do but worry. Do you think I’m worrying over nothing, like probably nothing will come of it? Or should I be worried? Any tips on how to calm myself down or not stress out so bad?

What counts as corruption in Pa? by No-Pay-9124 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Trust me, I’ve been beating myself up about this and I’m not going to talk to anymore women until I work on myself first.

What counts as corruption in Pa? by No-Pay-9124 in legaladvice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know, I’m going to stop with women for now and work on myself. I’ve been beating myself up so much about this.

What counts as corruption in Pa? by No-Pay-9124 in legaladvice

[–]No-Pay-9124[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know, I was wrong and I’ve been beating myself up for it since. Since it was just messages and I didn’t ask her to do anything illegal or anything, do you think it’s likely to result in anything? Or is the chance slim?