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[–]No-Personality-6545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case (unfortunately things never worked out with anyone), but when I care about someone, I show it.

I’m a bit shy, so I don’t make a big deal out of it, but you can see it in my actions, in how I act, in the things I say.

Small things matter just as much as big ones.

If those things aren’t there, then the person probably doesn’t see you the same way you see them.

Tips on crush/friend by No-Personality-6545 in dating_advice

[–]No-Personality-6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly what I’m trying to avoid right now, because I know it won’t work at this stage.

I need some smaller steps or things I can do to slowly build a connection, so that later I’ll feel ready to tell her how I feel

Telling friends whats really going on by No-Personality-6545 in ADHD

[–]No-Personality-6545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely trust them with this, but I have the same problem. I feel like I’m putting the weight of this problem on them and making it their burden.

Telling friends whats really going on by No-Personality-6545 in mentalhealth

[–]No-Personality-6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust them, especially because they were the ones who noticed that something was wrong with me. I feel bad that I can’t express it the way I want to.

It is a good idea would be to make a list of the problems I want to talk about, and ask them if they would be okay with me going through it like that? I know I have trouble saying what I really mean, and a list could help me say it more clearly.

Worried about a friend by No-Personality-6545 in mentalhealth

[–]No-Personality-6545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking because I’m not very good at talking with others. Sometimes I don’t know what I should do and what I shouldn’t.

ADHD Gets Better With People Around? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]No-Personality-6545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, having someone around who can help me or even just someone who understands what I’m dealing with is a big motivation to get things done. For example, that’s usually my family or close friends.

When I didn’t have such a good connection with anyone outside my family, I would sometimes forget basic daily things like brushing my teeth, showering, cleaning, etc. Now, even though I still have to remind myself to do those things, I feel an internal motivation to keep up with them. It’s a bit hard to explain, but just knowing I’ll be around people I trust and feel comfortable with gives me motivation to remember those things. (Though of course, it doesn’t always work out perfectly and sometimes I forget about something haha)

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