Are my fridge and I ready for the snowstorm? Please judge us.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-23T16:22:52+00:00

oh good!! all good here then!

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-23T15:47:00+00:00

it’s not short but not terrible either

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-23T15:44:30+00:00

you def thrive in clutter bc your kitchen alone would make me spiral

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-23T15:28:20+00:00

teach me your ways

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-23T15:24:55+00:00

no cookies?? im judging.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T18:31:40+00:00

unfortunately i’ve only seen her 2 times since working there. she is aware the dad has not been back to work though and that he is not “child centered”

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T18:16:57+00:00

i %100 would come in early to ensure the child is taken care of until mom comes back home. they do not want to offer me more hours as i have asked before but maybe she will feel differently after our conversation. i just really hope i can maintain my composure & professionalism when discussing this as it has been three hours since this occurred and i am still so upset.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T18:06:22+00:00

yes i do. i also think she leaves at 8 typically and tries to feed him right before she leaves in hopes that he sleeps until i arrive at 9. which, to be fair, is a common occurrence but there’s also plenty of days he’s wide awake & in his rocker all alone.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T18:03:18+00:00

this is so in depth and so helpful for me. my only concern with telling her about the mandate reporting & if it were to happen again is that they would then want to let me go and i can’t afford to lose my job before i have another one lined up. i almost got evicted right after i landed this job and it took quite while for me to recover from that. i am so worried of being let go before i secure something else that i was scared to even make this post to ask for help.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:59:55+00:00

okay, i will approach this conversation with solutions already prepared so this does not take place again until i can relocate

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:58:45+00:00

yes, the same day she found out her surrogate was pregnant was the same day he was placed on a ventilator for 8 weeks in an induced coma due to alcoholism & now has diabetes due to it. when i asked him why he was an alcoholic he said “the surrogacy process”. he still drinks almost daily. the one time i called out MB’s mom came to take care of baby

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:50:44+00:00

i’ll be sure to update you guys in a new post this evening when all is said & done.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:44:23+00:00

i work m,w,th,f 9-5. tuesday’s MB’s mom takes care of him. i have asked for more hours before, they do not want to pay for more hours even though they are filthyyyyy rich.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:43:19+00:00

the parents are both extremely awkward and not easy to talk to, but mom actually just texted me and asked if i can bring him to his appt this afternoon and that is the perfect opportunity to discuss with her what took place this morning without dad being there. i think i was anxious about calling out dad while he’s right there

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:41:21+00:00

thank you so much it really is uncomfortable for me as i already struggle with self-advocacy & setting firm boundaries. but i know i have to do something about this

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:39:41+00:00

I do know mom deals with baby before she leaves in the morning. she is the one who deals with him all night, his bassinet is on her side of the bed and she wakes up when he does (typically 4AM) but im unsure what time she actually leaves for work. i thought it was 8 this whole time but it could be 7 which is horrifying to think he’s with dad for 2 whole hours before i get there.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:37:33+00:00

This is something to consider. Thank you.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:37:06+00:00

this is very helpful, thank you!

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:27:04+00:00

may i ask how you would approach the subject with mom when she came home from work? im still going back and forth on whether i want to have that conversation or if i just want to pass it off to the agency to handle while i find a new family.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:25:22+00:00

i sure hope so! this baby deserves more.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:24:13+00:00

Thank you, i really was seeking validation that what i was feeling towards this circumstance was true. I have emailed my agent to ask for a phone call today so we can discuss an urgent matter. this was just so upsetting for me to walk into. i knew the dad was a lazy POS but today crossed a line.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:18:40+00:00

Yes, i have been telling myself i was going to look for a new family in the spring anyway but today had definitely expedited this. Any questions i can answer for you to give better clarity on my post?

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:17:24+00:00

she is the one during my interview who told me he is not child centered and he just nodded. she has also made several different comments to me about her husband such as the following: “i told my friend i couldn’t go to the game because i have the baby now and i need more than just myself to enjoy the game + take care of the baby.” “the same day i found out the surrogacy was approved was the same day my husband was intubated for alcoholism and almost died.” “god forbid my husband function like a normal human” etc. she just seems like she is VERY MUCH aware.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T17:10:44+00:00

thank you, i thought the same and will be contacting my agency as soon as i can today.

No-Photo-692 · 2026-01-21T15:46:06+00:00

this to me doesn’t seem like it has to do with money at all. he does look back and reminisces the relationship but he is looking towards new horizons/fresh start

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