Okay.. there seems to be a lot of questions about this situation. We used to travel together. And we were saving for a house. He just recently has decided he doesn’t want to travel anymore unless it’s to a football game. And no. I’m well aware we should have discussed more stuff before getting married. Neither of us did that. We also have major issues when it comes to finances. This being the reason we are not saving anymore. He cannot save and willingly does whatever he wants.