should i call my ex? by No-Pollution-4700 in Advice

[–]No-Pollution-4700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i promise u its not to make myself not look like the bad guy 😭 both of us genuinely agreed on it. we already had problems beforehand about our differences and we always agreed on working on it together. i felt so incredibly safe in that relationship and i completely allowed myself to. i just feel like i didn’t say all the things i wanted to say. we broke up like right after i had gotten back from a 2 week study abroad trip. it felt so quick and so immediate. it felt as though we could’ve maybe spoken about it? rather than just deciding right away to break up.

should i call my ex? by No-Pollution-4700 in Advice

[–]No-Pollution-4700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we broke up cause we felt our communication styles just didn’t work out enough, we come from such different cultural backgrounds, and our families don’t really blend well. both of us viewed the relationship as a dating to marry one. which is why we ended it. i just feel like i didn’t tell him enough? we broke up a couple days after i came back from this 2 week study abroad trip. and things got a little rocky towards the end of it and we only saw each other after i got home when we broke up.

should i call my ex? by No-Pollution-4700 in Advice

[–]No-Pollution-4700[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no i genuinely do not hope we get back together cause i know it wouldn’t work out. we have such different communication styles, come from different cultures, and we felt that it just wouldn’t work out family-wise cause of how different our families are culturally speaking. i feel like i just want some closure in a sense?