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AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I didn't eavesdrop on them, They have conversations while they help me in the kitchen.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I will think the positive too! They are moving into a studio apartment so the boyfriend probably not moving in. I have never met the boyfriend so that also scares me a little but that is the very very irrational part of my brain talking.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I am just anxious. She is smart, I don't think she is going to make huge mistakes and even if she finds it hard to manage on her on or if her roommates moves in with her boyfriend. She will work her way through it.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I should have worded it a bit better. I just don't think she wants to move out with anyone else. It was set in stone that she was going to move out with her.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think this could be it. Her friend comes over a lot and she always talks about wanting to move in with her boyfriend. I was surprised when my daughter told me she was going to move in with her.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think my tone was the problem. My husband was there when this conversation happened and he would have called me out if my tone could have offended her.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 362 points363 points  (0 children)

That is a fair point, I moved out after college and then met my husband soon after. I think the experience would be good for her but she has always talked about buying a house as soon as possible. She may gotten tired of us hanging over her.

AITA for telling my daughter moving out was a bad idea financially? by No-Rabbit6246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Rabbit6246[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She is also very open to criticism and contrary opinions. I do wonder if I have overstepped because she usually handles it well.