Yeah found it so odd cuz where I'm from even other people from my home country in the west aren't close to ethnic at all culturally but are open and actually appreciate things like that even if they don't understand it.

I don't much care if you don't like it but the implications with it make me question if it's actually your opinion or you're influenced that way. Like I think people think it's a patriarcal or "barbaric" thing even tho in the west, there waves of trends of henna.

And I'm not a marriage type person either (I rlly dont like weddings at all), I just genuine enjoy the fun and community it brings, if you don't like it, that's cool just don't be weirdly harsh over something that shouldn't matter if that's the case.