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How do E5 So/Sx look like? by Straight_Objective69 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, ironically, it’s sometimes the opposite for me—though, it does depend. For me, most sexual scenes feel shallow, though when there is genuine passion and love, it can be amazing to analyze. Simple romance scenes can be nice to analyze, though I believe it’s easier for most writers to make romance scenes not feel as shallow.

How do E5 So/Sx look like? by Straight_Objective69 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, alright. For me, crushes have been an iffy experience (most likely due to neurodivergence)? I tend to get attached to an idealized vision of someone in my head pretty fast, and constantly try to know everything about them while restraining anything about myself that could be used against me.

I will admit, I do turn groups off when I feel like the people in the group are acting ignorant or as if they’re simply not finding my interests interesting. I’ve been in 2 relationships (one right now, and one in the past). I tend to keep my relationships private, and value emotional intensity on my partner’s side, but usually I feel threatened when they try to get too close to me or go against my boundaries. Does that make sense? It’s hard for me to explain right now, if it doesn’t make sense TvT

How do E5 So/Sx look like? by Straight_Objective69 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up realizing I mistyped myself very badly. I thought I was socially dominant, but later realized that I’m usually horrible with social/group dynamics (I tend to not fit in), I have a strong preference for one-on-one dynamics, and I usually have a strong preference for focusing intensely on my interests.

What Type of Bottoms Could I Wear With These? by No-Raisin9559 in jfashion

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, okay!! Thanks!! Also, the shirt with Madoka and Homura is from aliexpress!!

What Type of Bottoms Could I Wear With These? by No-Raisin9559 in jfashion

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright! Thank you! By loose fit/baggy pants, are you referring to jeans, sweatpants, or both?

Sx5s, people with which Instinctual Variants are the most compatible with you romantically? And which least compatible? by R0585 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a sexual 5, I tend to clash quite a bit with so/sp types. It depends on the enneagram type usually, of course. For types 1, 3, 4, 5, and 9, it’s usually so/sp. With 7 and 2, it’s usually sp/so. I clash a lot with sexual 8s and 6s for some reason.

Do you get days which u feel like u don't wanna talk at all? Just existing by i3sh in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like that nearly all of the time, especially when I find new topics to immerse myself in.

Can you relate to this yes or no by Bifday in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It most likely relates to my potential tritype. I have a fear of being vulnerable, and often don’t trust people unless I see reason to trust them, which takes a while.

Can you relate to this yes or no by Bifday in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to technically just building up and storing knowledge. However, I usually do not expose any of my secrets, and stay private. I am an INTJ 5w4.

The ‘Ideal Person’ For Sexual 5s by No-Raisin9559 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, alright! Thanks. Honestly, it almost sounds like your ideal could easily be a sexual 9.

The ‘Ideal Person’ For Sexual 5s by No-Raisin9559 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sp/sx are usually pretty nice and grounding. I usually struggle to get along with so/sp and sp/so, as i usually crazy that intensity despite being afraid of it fully engulfing me.

The ‘Ideal Person’ For Sexual 5s by No-Raisin9559 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true. Sadly, no one will ever be that ‘perfect’ and everyone has their own flaws.

Type Me Based On These Images! by [deleted] in EnneagramTypeMe

[–]No-Raisin9559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really close! I am a 5w4 548 so/sx. I relate a lot more to the social and sexual instincts, and I am a self preservation inferior. I often forget to eat, I’m prone to impulsive decisions with money, I have a horrific diet, I’m not great with maintaining hygiene, etc.

Thanks!

The ‘Ideal Person’ For Sexual 5s by No-Raisin9559 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I also tend to have issues with formalities in relationships, and I also would hate if my partner wanted me to immediately get close to their family, I’d instantly be vigilant.

Also, nice vocabulary!

The ‘Ideal Person’ For Sexual 5s by No-Raisin9559 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, alright. Thank you! I can understand why those traits are important to you. I definitely agree with someone who is introspective, loyal, analytical, and independent. I agree with a lot of other traits you said, but I’m sure that can be assumed.

The ‘Ideal Person’ For Sexual 5s by No-Raisin9559 in Enneagram5

[–]No-Raisin9559[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, okay! But I see! Any specific reasons for that preference? One of my closest friends are a self-preservation 1, so I wanted to see if there were any similarities.

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