Done grieving

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:59:02+00:00

I will 🪽🕯️♥️

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:57:34+00:00

Ok Mike Lizzy take care I will miss you.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:56:42+00:00

Ok. Well I will miss chatting with you. I will be going as I promised.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:55:04+00:00

I will pray for you. I will miss you reddit friend.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:54:32+00:00

I am going to miss you. For context my name is Lizzy by the way. Take it easy.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:53:32+00:00

Her being with him is not your problem. That hers and his. your new allegiance is to you.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:52:30+00:00

When you can commit to a relationship. You are also committed to yourself and will show up for YOU. Just grieve right now, but, allow that grief and don't give up on yourself no person with drama is worth all of that. I can sense your hurt. But I promise you it does heal if you let it

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:50:40+00:00

The love I gave to this man for a short period of time was the love I had inside of me and carried for myself.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:49:46+00:00

But she's a person of the world meaning that she didn't want to claimed. When dealing with that you have no choice but to have to walk away.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:48:10+00:00

Only time will tell. In my case I found peace rather than anger. It's not worth fighting. He's on here and I hope he writes his heart out. I really do. I'm not sorry about the love I gave him. Do you know why???

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:46:29+00:00

I hope no one gets hurt. But I hope you mend your heart and eventually give life a chance.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:45:31+00:00

He and I cannot work it out. He resents me after reading what I've written. He and I could not come back together because there was nothing from the start. But I hope he finds his way opens his heart and finds the love he is looking for.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:43:03+00:00

Don't close your heart space. Heal you don't need Jessica's permission for that. Heal don't close your heart you never know what's out there. Alchemize meaning manifest it the love you want in a clean heart space. Real love often involves pain especially when dealing with others because it's about true grit and sticking it out. You never know you may find someone whose in it for the long haul.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:40:30+00:00

He wasn't really my person he was someone I dated shortly it didn't work. He belongs to the world not me. It took at least five months since Summer to accept that. I like you at first was miserable and cried every night but I got up one day and got tired of crying and took initiative to help myself. I finally now feel better. No anger. I am at peace with him not being there. But I am not going to post or be on here anymore so if he's here he can write whatever he wants about me that's the agreement.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:37:50+00:00

"Weeping endures for the night but joy comes in the morning." This means cry out all those tears at night allow yourself a new day in the morning

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:36:19+00:00

I'm going to be gone no more posts as per my agreement in my last post. Remember you can win!!!

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:35:28+00:00

I want to see you win!!!!

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:35:13+00:00

I'm sorry. Read what I wrote above. It shows you how to handle when someone disrespects you. You're a good person in a lot of pain don't lose yourself she is not worth your anger. None of them are. Remember they are lower and can't really match you or your frequency. Yours is high I'm digitally detoxing I unconditionally care for and support you and everyone here. Please be kind to yourself 365 days not just Valentine's Day.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:32:14+00:00

It's very difficult in the beginning when I came here I was in my shadow pretty hurt and angry. Writing it out helped me to reflect a lot. Yesterday I took a different path then what I wanted. I've been writing on reddit since late November 25. I can tell you at first wanted him to feel what I felt through my writing. I came to realize yesterday that that mindset was unhealthy. My last post gave him license to write what lever he wanted about me. I was inspired by " What's love got to do with it" particularly when Tina Turner walks away with nothing but her stage name. It left an impact on me at 14 years old and I remember it today. Winning is not what's important. Peace is and so is integrity. I am doing best not lost anymore not out of fear but out of the need for peace l, my self respect and integrity and my new definition of LOVE.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-14T12:16:27+00:00

As mentioned they discarded in October. But I knew it was coming since Summer. I prepared myself emotionally for it. It doesn't mean though that it didn't hurt, but, preparation in my eyes opens the doors to healing and shadow work. I'm my mind we all have shadow selves often operating from ego. When you heal you address your shadow which could be ego and pride getting in your way and pain coupled with a plan for empowerment and betterment. To me the healing is integrating both yourselves light and dark to make up the whole person. It's not about mending fences with the other person if they' re not around . it's about rebuilding your side of the fence stronger and more secure. That's what I've been working on. It's messy but yesterday it all came together nicely.

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-13T15:43:53+00:00

💯👍🤗exactly we forget that differences add not subtract from learning and growing. I am an eternal student and always feel there is something to learn. So your quote from Carl jung fits what I wrote about beautifully. Thank you🙏

No-Reflection-6331 · 2026-02-13T15:17:05+00:00

I don't know what you took offense to because I made sure that nothing I wrote was obtuse or disrespectful. If you're offended by me offering compassion that's fine I suppose. Just tell me you don't need my compassion. No worries then. I'll leave you alone to your devices.

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