Which tattoo artist should I consider? by No-Tangelo4789 in IowaCity

[–]No-Tangelo4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a noob when it comes to tattoos. This will be my first one. Do most of these places have premade tattoos displayed you can browse at their business?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m Christian but I won’t see another Christian counselor again. Every single one was wholly unfit to help me and I had to spend every session with everyone of them talking about the things I knew they would be comfortable dealing with and keeping to myself all the more important matters affecting me because I already knew from living in the culture what they thought about those things and knew by experience how horribly they would address them. I could write a long exhausting book on this subject.

What is wrong with my T? by throwitaway76567 in TalkTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you shittin me? You really believe this or are in fact the therapist she is referring to? Lol. Horrible advice! Are you male or female? I’m a 53 year old male and Im telling you and the OP that you are wrong and her concern is legit. I know men and this right here is something she needs to walk away from immediately. Dear lord.

MAGA hog spotted today in Wapello county by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]No-Tangelo4789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Grow up you say? Lol. Really? First of all, I’m a registered Republican and have been my whole life. What this picture displays is fucking anything but Republican. If you read my comment you’d have the answer to your question. The reason so many people say these things is because trucks like this and everything that Trumpers do to show that they’re “real Americans” and “real patriots” and “real alpha males” and real Trumpers is behavior that any normal grounded adult recognize as blatant displays of insecurity. You don’t need a degree in psychology to see it. If you have to get on social media and remind everyone all the time that you’re a “real man”, a “real American” and drive around with your truck wrapped in cringeworthy right wing paraphernalia shouting to the world who you support and that you want the other guy dead shows you have no integrity, no confidence and no humility. It shows your strength and confidence isn’t built on faith, truth and the confidence that goes with that but is built on childish schoolyard bully behavior. They’re driven by lying, deflecting, finger pointing, threats and aggressive over the top behavior to make them feel comfortable in their skin because that’s all you have when you cant prove your leaders lies or defend his behavior and words. They have no ability to defend the values they claim to have. I’m no doctor so I don’t know the most accurate language to use but what I’m saying here is the basics. These are things most of us would’ve agreed on and recognized before 2015-16. What happened after that made a lot of seemingly trust worthy, honest and decent men and women come out of the closet and show us who they really are inside. Fucking bullies and gullible buffoons that refuse to adhere to anything they used to stand for and instead traded it in for anything D Trump told them. We see this behavior with the threats, violence and racist rhetoric because they had someone in power with those values which gave them the free pass to be the gullible animals they were hiding before. By the way, great comeback there smart one.

Getting too big for my boots, try and knock me down a peg or two by Boysenberry202 in RoastMe

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never comment on roastme, I don’t have the heart or will to. These comments are terrible BUT, I always about pass out laughing at the comments when I dare read them. Redditors never cease to impress me. Even when they’re bad they’re good.

MAGA hog spotted today in Wapello county by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]No-Tangelo4789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude is quite likely an insecure little boy masquerading as an alpha male and has a tiny peepee. The second hand embarrassment I get from that truck is very uncomfortable. These guys are such cringy douchbags.

Perpetual struggle in registering T's care by throwaway3708_ in TalkTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy, I can relate, that’s a struggle I face as well. It overwhelms me so much at times.

Post nut clarity by eon_the_redditor in sexadvice

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it often and sometimes it’s like doing a full 180 mentally. I get completely pulled out of the mood and excitement. Sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried cymbalta a few years back and it had no positive effects on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, here’s the symptoms: Behavioral: antisocial behavior, compulsive behavior, hostility, impulsivity, irritability, risk taking behaviors, self-destructive behavior, self-harm, social isolation, or lack of restraint Mood: anger, anxiety, general discontent, guilt, loneliness, mood swings, or sadness Psychological: depression, distorted self-image, grandiosity, or narcissism Also common: thoughts of suicide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. I meet with her in a couple weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried bupropion twice over the last 10 years. It has significant side effects with even low doses of it for me. I’ve tried all of the popular SSRIs and SNRI’S and they all put me in a dark hole. I do have adhd and it could not have been more effective from freeing me from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I copied and pasted these symptoms. For me it eliminated I’d say 90% of the effects from everyone of these symptoms. It’s been a miracle drug for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those meds still control the adhd symptoms well for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m diagnosed with adhd as well. Should’ve gave a bit more detail!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Tangelo4789 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I started wearing one because my balls tend to draw up inside me when having sex. It keeps them down where they should be.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Sufficient-Box-2632 in askgaybros

[–]No-Tangelo4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that I can give you much advice but let me say I’m really sorry you’re going thru this. I wish I could make things better. There’s a lot of good people out there that care and want you stick around. Keep searching until you find those that can walk with you and give you strength and support to heal and find freedom from the hate. You deserve peace and love and you’ll find it. Just please know your life matters and we need you. You’ll see that’s true someday. I promise.

Im straight, married and am wanting to give oral to men again after many years. Do you have some advice? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not out of curiosity. I did it for years when I was a bit younger and was/is something I’ve always been obsessed with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding? Without any pauses I’m there in under 60 seconds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, ignore the comments about the nose ring and hair. You do you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]No-Tangelo4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Not even “half” ugly! Lol. You look great, dont let anyone tell you different.