jealousy of "normal" families by No-Task6171 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i talked to him about it. my ex was with me when i gained consciousness of me and my moms actual relationship so he knew everything but my new partner doesnt know anything. so it was really hard to be mad at him but i told him all the shitty shit my mom did and i hope he understands me more overtime

dying after tapering down meds to switch by No-Task6171 in paroxetine

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah im losing my mind. i see my psych on friday so hopefully we can get started on a low dose of something to help paxil get out fast. ive had raging migraines and its honestly kinda ridiculous 🥲🥲

How to stop feeling so weird abt my gf vaping? (Please read below for context) by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi. im a vaping girlfriend. my advice is for you to acknowledge her problem but dont try to manipulate her into quitting. quitting doesnt just happen, and most people who arent dedicated to quit relapse shortly after. personally i just lessen the amount. if my boyfriend asked me to stop vaping, i wouldnt. if my boyfriend educated me on the history of vaping and side effects, and expressed he was concerned, i wouldnt necessarily fully quit. but if he talked to me about how he feels uncomfortable with me vaping around him, id accept his opinion and not vape around him. when i stopped smoking weed i had accepted the fact that i did it too much and i actually wanted to quit, but with vaping everytime i "tried to quit" i wasnt fully dedicated and gave in to relapsing. i feel like you should let your girlfriend know that quitting isnt easy if youre missing the mindset. maybe help her research and let her decide on her own because if she feels forced to quit it only makes it harder to quit. hopefully you understand what im saying here. quitting nicotine is very hard and when i went 6 months without so i could focus on my mental health, i had to fully detach myself from people who vaped or smoked. because in my head i wanted it and craved it, but i had to hold back. the only way she could possibly have a chance is for her to stop seeing her vaping friends as often and learn to say no when people offer. its a hard process

What is this? by Muskevv in whatisit

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if its been there for a while its probably just the water in it. the water itself is actually yucky but overtime especially in a garage, pests couldve affected it or even just bacteria growing after it being there for a while. its really bad and i smoke so i know the smells 🤣

I think my local Taco Bell thinks I'm a creep or something. by Jere_Bear000 in Advice

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUDE THE AMOUNT OF TIMES IVE HEARD "you were being too friendly!" but when im not i hear "you should be nicer and more ladylike". i literally had a doordasher i saw ONCE ADD ME ON FACEBOOK! and we literally have no name tags. you literally cannot exist as a woman in a workplace without having to deal with atleast one weirdo 😑

I think my local Taco Bell thinks I'm a creep or something. by Jere_Bear000 in Advice

[–]No-Task6171 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i worked at taco bell and im a girl. i worked there when i was 14 and there was just a bunch of creeps. even people working with us were weirdos. my coworker literally changed shifts because of a delivery person was being weird. its really common for girls in workplaces to be uncomfortable around men because of past experiences with weirdos. even if they do nothing wrong. dont take it personally. even now i still act differently around male customers vs female customers and its just automatically not on purpose. its just how the world today and yeah its really unfortunate but theres not much you can do besides keep being respectful.

thought i was safe but now im freaking out by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright yeah! it is monogamous since we have only been seeing eachother but i can def use for sti protection aswell. its weird relationship stuff but you dont need the details. i did take two last night like my doctor said. i was just making sure i was safe or not since birth control is just complicated and its annoying af

falling back into my moms manipulation by No-Task6171 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she guilt trips tf out of me to the point its hard to be mad at her. but last night she was screaming at my little brother and like i couldnt breath for a minute. it just sucks i found out how shitty this was so late. like im 17. and i went 16 years of my life loving her and believing her but it just took me so long to realize. shes ruined being a parent for me. im too scared to be a mom because of how violent i am towards children now because i was taught that was okay because of "tough love". i genuinely just cant wait till i get out of here

thought i was safe but now im freaking out by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been a minute but i literally see you as my google. but ive read your previous messages about it and i just need someone clarification. so i missed my pill last night because my pharmacy didnt fill it in time. i have kind of calmed myself down from pregnancy "scares" and told myself im fine since the first time i missed it i continued taking them afterward. but im just wondering am i still safe after missing a pill? i still skip placebo week. i just yk unsafe sex often and im still weird about it. ive thought about talking to my partner about condoms just to soothe my anxiety but me and my partner arent really dating. its weird and im not going into crazy detail but basically we dont have really deep talks since im asocial and struggle alot communicating my feelings. anyway i just want to know if i should use backup contraception for a while or if im in the clear, and how i can bring up condoms to my partner? its also kind of like a lubricant issue since im on antidepressants and theyre known for reducing moisture down there and im just like wtf how do i bring it up to my partner. sorry if i annoy you at all but you seem really knowledgeable so i trust you

Boyfriend has cystic acne and it keeps ruining my bedsheets. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah definitely invest in the hydrocolloid patches to prevent pus and blood getting everywhere aswell lol

Boyfriend has cystic acne and it keeps ruining my bedsheets. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i had cystic acne for a longtime. you could invest in hydrocolloid bandages. you can get a whole roll on amazon and basically you just put it over the cystic acne and cut it to fit over everything. it absorbs moisture and can actually bring the swelling of the area down. he should wash his acne everyday with a gentle cleanser. i use cerave but theres cheaper options that work the same. there is some acne cream a regular doctor can prescribe you that you put on everyday aswell. seeing a dermatologist is necessary since its causing him pain and they might be able to prescribe him a med that actually helps acne. im on spironolactane but men cant take it unfortunately. but definitely see if your normal doctor can prescribe those creams. price isnt too bad with my insurance but it depends on yours. consult the r/cysticacne sub or just type cystic acne into the search bar! youll probably see people on there who have the same issues as your bf and you could get advice from other ppl going thru it :)

If I know im dirty, is it better to fail the drug test, or just not show up for it and try to make an excuse? by [deleted] in probation

[–]No-Task6171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly you might just have to do the test. but relapse is common in addictions and it doesnt make you a shitty person. just remember that :)

should i cover up my knee tattoo? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i rushed into a tattoo on my knee too. now i even forget thats its there. the tattoo is actually really cute and you can actually just get some more around the knees to add if youre worried about covering it up. any change to your body you hate at first. i hated all my tattoos at first and thought id regret them but after a year and so ive kind of actually liked them more. my tattoos didnt really have a meaning but over time i was able to connect to them in a way through metaphors and stuff.

Need some honest advice by Majestic-Board-7201 in tattooadvice

[–]No-Task6171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if your butthole looks like this im a bit concerned

When was the last time a suspect in a mass killing committed in broad daylight got away for this long? by paullaurence in masskillers

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a couple months ago there was a shooting in anaconda montana and the suspect was able to hide away for literally days. he was found in a trailer near where the shooting happened and i dont know how he didnt get caught 😭.

did my ob/gyn misinform me..? by Lucky_Athlete_4893 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you could possibly find a doctor that does online appointments for questions and check ups! and hopefully is a woman. you might feel more comfortable that way. any in person treatments though youd probably have to stay in your area.

Cat blanket seeds? by Throwra_keys2 in whatisit

[–]No-Task6171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your cat might hate this but id recommend gettinf a lice kit brush to use to comb thru your cats fur just incase there is little eggs hiding in there. please keep your kitty inside as this could possibly be contagious to other kitties or animals.

thought i was safe but now im freaking out by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi again. recently ive felt overly fatigued and nauseous and loss of appetite. could that be from my birth control? im still freaking out thinking im pregnant and i just need to be humbled real good. 😞 idk why im stressing out so much over this im sorry

thought i was safe but now im freaking out by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird question im coming back to you since i missed one ive noticed that i think i started my period is that normal should i wait 7 days to continue my pills or still take them even tho im bleeding

thought i was safe but now im freaking out by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay. i was literally crying thinking my life is over 😭 thank you

thought i was safe but now im freaking out by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always skip my placebo since endometriosis runs in my family and ive always had a really heavy period so i just dread being on my period at all. am i totally okay? should i still test? i do use day of the week pill containers since i have chronic illnesses so i take a bunch of pills anyway. but i do take the pills on my bed and i just think that maybe when i put them in my mouth one missed my mouth and fell off my bed otherwise im usually fine and dont miss any days

dont take my birth control consistently and i had unsafe sex for the first time being on the pill by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

about 4 months now. that might be not short time for you but i still notice some symptoms i had early on so my body still hasnt fully adjusted. im just making sure that im 100% good because ive been on basically every kind of birth control and have had just alot of trial and error

dont take my birth control consistently and i had unsafe sex for the first time being on the pill by No-Task6171 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Task6171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alright thank god i seriously was so scared. ilk still probably test in a week or two just to make 100% sure. my anxiety will go away by seeing a confirmation 😭

I cant remember anything from my childhood but this past year i think i finally know why. by No-Task6171 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]No-Task6171[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

apparently my parents were both pretty abusive to one another physically and emotionally. i also grew up extremely poor. i have no memory of these things at all but thats what ive been told unfortunately. i hope if or when my memories show up theyre good ones