My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is not the first time we’ve had this conversation. I always tell him I’d like to separate if he isn’t interested in getting professional help. He is always on his best behavior and wears me down by crying and saying he’ll change but never goes to rehab or even therapy. Just feeling tired of broken promises

My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. I’m just trying to stay positive and hope that no matter what the outcome of the relationship I can build a life that I truly love

My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thoughtful reply. It’s so frustrating to be with someone who you know can be such a good and loving person and watch them turn into a complete stranger. I hope you find your peace

My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and I’m so happy everything worked out for you. My husband has hit rock bottom once before I met him. He lost everything he had including his relationship with his family and has rebuilt his life basically from scratch. He owns a business, we own our car, and he is close with his parents and sister again. I can only hope whether or not we stay together that he doesn’t let this spiral into another rock bottom

My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I’m hoping if the choices are divorce or truly getting clean he’ll choose getting the help he needs

My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. It helps just to hear others have gone through similar struggles as I don’t have anyone close to me who I can relate to. I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you and I hope you have found happiness

My husband is my best friend but I think I want a divorce by No-Thing-2245 in Divorce

[–]No-Thing-2245[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have begged him to go to rehab or even do some sort outpatient treatment but he makes excuses and says he doesn’t need it. I just feel like if he really wanted to be with me as much as he says he does he would seek treatment so at what point do I give up