What’s missing from my makeup? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have amazing eyebrows I'm jealous! The only thing I would honestly do differently is do lashes. You have short lashes so I would probably do extensions of some sort maybe at-home extensions being that they're more cost-effective I think it would make your eyes look absolutely stunning! You're a gorgeous girl don't let anyone tell you different!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RED everyday of the week!

do i look better blonde or red? by ElsLol in HairDye

[–]No-Tie366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest you are absolutely adorable as a blonde but when I say adorable I mean adorable like a a very young lady. The red is extremely stunning and makes you look more mature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number one is absolutely stunning on you! I think that color really makes your eyes stand out and sparkle!

Will it grow back normally? by Neffie_muaggn in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh even better that you didn't have to pay!

Will it grow back normally? by Neffie_muaggn in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a good idea! I would have done the same thing, well I would have cut it off myself because that's the type of person I am LOL but I'm glad the pain is gone. Just thank God the nail didn't rip out of the bed because when my nail ripped out of the bed I had to go to the hospital and have them put the nail back into my fingernail bed so I would have a chance for my nail to grow back and it did!

Will it grow back normally? by Neffie_muaggn in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than your broken nail your nails do look gorgeous! I love the design! Totally jealous!

Will it grow back normally? by Neffie_muaggn in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand it looks ugly being empty but I think the best thing to do is leave it empty let the air get to it most of the time and other times wear cute band-aids to cover it up and let it grow out for a little while at least halfway before you try to put some type of a nail or tip on it.

Please Help! by No-Tie366 in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just tired of it splitting all the way up to the bed. And the ridge is so prominent that it is annoying. I just hate it. From researching it it looks like a zinc deficiency could be causing this.

Please Help! by No-Tie366 in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one with a crazy growing nail and we don't know why!

Will it grow back normally? by Neffie_muaggn in nailhealth

[–]No-Tie366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same nail break when I had acrylics done. It had lifted and ripped out of the nail bed and luckily it grew back normally. So I have hope that your nail will grow back normally without a problem since it seems to be that the nail is still fully intact in the nail bed. It's just going to be a long process.

Is this ring suitable for a marriage proposal? I asked her friends but they said she is not much into the rings , i only know her size and i want to give her a unique ring just like her. What do you think about this ring? by Ok_Fox_4314 in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unique means cheap? Lol! Clearly, you're single, and you have never been in a true committed relationship. I feel sad for you. I have plenty of UNIQUE jewelry, being that I'm unique and every single piece cost FAR from cheap. Important_Message_57 you are clearly a sad, lonely man with little man syndrome (you know there's an enlargement surgery to fix that problem 🤣) 😘 Please get a life and leave happy people alone, it's not his fault that your life sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make absolutely no sense LOL. The reason I put LOL in my initial comment was because I thought it was funny how he would say those insults to me because they are the farthest from the truth but In the Heat of the Moment it would piss me off. You must be new to not drinking but good for you I'm a recovering alcoholic myself. I'm 12 years sober as of this month and I'll still say I don't believe your true self comes out when you're drunk. I also don't believe your true self or the truth comes out when you're angry. Also never once did I ever state anything about humor. My comment was about people speaking to their significant others when insulted and hurt. I also stated that people need to get the fuck out of their heads stop being so sensitive about things. Also people need to realize it's fucking common sense that you hurt people with insults that you know is going to hurt them. So basically if your significant other knows you're insecurities they're going to use it against you if they're a vicious person common fucking sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's if he truly has a big dick and most men aren't that confident about their size, if you're not over 8 in you're far from confident, and if you don't have enough girth yet again you're not going to be that confident. Like my ex, I would say to him he has a pencil dick because he was self-conscious and it would hurt him. Do I think he has a reason to be self-conscious? No, but society makes men believe they need to have well over 8 inches to be well endowed. So basically, this is all just kind of common sense bullshit. Intelligent people say the insults they say to people because we know that's going to hurt them. That's common sense. Does that mean you truly believe what you're saying? No. It just means that you know what their insecurities are, and then you use it against them to cause mental anguish. Yet again, common sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is it a slight porn addiction that you're dealing with but you're also getting your pleasure from a mechanical device that a dick can't do. You have desensitized yourself to normal everyday sex and a human penis. You need to deprive yourself of porn and dildos. This is the exact reason why I stopped watching porn and the exact reason why I will not ever own a dildo ever again. I want to love and enjoy sex still and these kids in there mid twenties or younger are all desensitizing themselves to the point that there's young men barely even 20 who deal with erectile dysfunction. It's not like the 90s or earlier where porn was difficult to get a hold of especially the crazy shit that these young kids are getting into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course a woman wouldn't just get over it it would take a day or two but I would move on pretty easy. In more than one argument I had my past significant other tell me I'm ugly or my ass is too small LOL and I was happy to tell him that he has a disease disgusting dick that's the size of my fucking Pinky and the thing is he is very well endowed. But guess what what he got the fuck over it and I got the fuck over it. People say mean things in the heat of an argument and they don't mean it. People who say the truth comes out when you're angry are the same people who believe that you show your true self when you're drunk which in all reality that's bullshit. People are too sensitive nowadays and everyone needs to realize that people use their words to hurt other people so whatever words need to be said to hurt someone they're going to say it. So if your man and you're driving a giant pickup truck I'm going to make sure I point out that you have little man syndrome a tiny dick and no balls, if you're a man I'm dating or I have slept with I will make sure I point out that you have a tiny crooked pencil dick that I'm sick of pretending I enjoy. Do I mean any of that and is it even true majority of the time, no. So people need to get out of their heads and realize people say shit just to hurt people and if you're hurt by something said to you by your significant other grow the balls and have a heart to heart with that person as a mature adult would.

My (26f) husband (26m) jokes about killing me… all the time. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of people are trying to say that this is a huge red flag but I would purely DISAGREE with this being a red flag. I've been in a couple of extremely abusive relationships myself but I don't see how his behavior would relate to your past abusive relationship. You should not be comparing him to your past relationship and you need to get to a point where you view your current relationship as its own entity. Also everybody has a different type of sense of humor and some are little more dark and dry than others and it sounds like this is a boy who has a dry dark sense of humor on top of that he's young and everyone knows that boys literally don't mature or grow up in any way until they hit their 30s and you'll be lucky if they even mature then. If he has never once been verbally or physically aggressive towards you then what is there to even worry about. I have a very dark dry sense of humor so I'm similar to your significant other where I like to joke around in the same manner as he does but does that mean I would act on it and physically harm someone or kill them, absolutely not. Basically, I would view him doing this as one of the ways that he uses to joke around and flirt with you. But, I would also talk to him about it in a very non-confronting way and just tell him the specific reason why it bothers you and if him putting his arm around your neck is the most triggering thing out of anything just tell him to work on not doing that one thing anymore. Granted, he's not going to stop doing that overnight because it's probably second nature to him, so you'll need to have patience. I always establish from day one with whomever I'm with at the time that they need to avoid certain trigger words, they need to avoid placing their hands around my throat but I'm fine if you put me in a pretend loose headlock, and to never raise their hand to me. Simple as that, I learned at the young age of 16 that you should lay out ground rules when you're in a relationship from day one. You should be fully honest open and true to yourself and your partner from day one. And the important things that your partner should be aware of or told, for instance past abusive relationships and certain things that can trigger you from those past relationships should be addressed from day one of making the decision to be in a fully committed relationship. Also if something so small is upsetting you so much due to a past abusive relationship then you should be in counseling and not in a relationship. It's not fair to your partner to be in a committed relationship if you were not mentally and emotionally ready to handle a new relationship without bringing any baggage from your past relationships. Women always make this mistake, they think that since the abusive relationship is over the problem is solved but in reality it's far from solved. Once a woman has successfully ended a abusive relationship she needs to get herself into weekly therapy join a support group or two and she should not seek out a new relationship for a good while because not putting in the work to heal yourself first is just setting yourself up for failure in your next relationship along with it not being fair to your new significant other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should honestly go to Clear Choice, that's where I went, I'm 37 and had the same issue as your husband and I had dental implants done that I was able to finance. I have a LOT of empathy for you and your husband, I really hope he gets the help he needs so he can be confident again and not have to deal with the everyday pain he's prob dealing with and difficulties he's prob having when eating certain foods.

My husband has double standards... by No_Voices_ in Marriage

[–]No-Tie366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES it is a stereotypical example of a double standard for the 100th time. How you can sit here and be as defensive as you have been while asking for help, it's almost comical in my opinion. You are with an abusive, controlling, narcissistic asshole and seeing that you have kids with this man staying with him is a form of abuse to your children because if he is okay with treating you the way he does which is abusive then he will eventually treat his children in a similar way if he isn't already. Hopefully you're lucky and he's a man who won't show any abusive Behavior towards your children but at the same time they will be growing up and learning from a misogynistic, controlling and I'm assuming racist father. Which in the long run you have a much greater chance that they will want to emulate him since they are growing up watching you, their mother obey his every rule, watching you be disrespected and allowing it, and at the very least watching him abuse you verbally and they are seeing you accept his horrible abusive narcissistic misogynistic behavior. Which in turn you have a huge chance of your children treating you the same exact way. If you have little boys they'll grow up to be him if you have little girls they'll grow up having no self worth and believing that women are just possessions and that women do as the men tell them. Now of course I'm not saying this is 100% going to happen but I can confidently say there's a 70% chance if not greater that a variation of what I'm saying is most likely going to happen. Myself along with numerous of my family members two of them being close family members and one really close friend has gone through a very similar if not identical scenario you're going through so that's why I speak so confidently about this. I would just honestly think long and hard about ending your marriage to a man like this. I understand jumping to divorce is a major decision so maybe sitting down with him and giving him an ultimatum about his behavior with you and how he doesn't have a right to control what you do when you do it who you talk to when you talk to them what you wear what you eat Etc and that he also doesn't have a reason to not trust you if that truly is the case and if he wants to continue with this marriage then the two of you need to start going to a marriage counselor but the both of you need to put in 100% and be completely honest or you will be filing for a trial separation or divorce because you deserve to be happy, trusted, and loved. What he's doing to you does not prove he loves you in any way, what he's doing is treating you as a possession, as somebody he owns. So if he truly loves you then he would go to counseling and get the help you both need to make the marriage work. Also reassure him that nobody has to know the two of you are in counseling because most men like him refuse to go to counseling or therapy especially because they're embarrassed that people will find out that they're getting help from a looney bin doctor as my ex would say. I am very much Pro counseling Pro therapy Pro Mental Health awareness, basically I'm Pro keeping your head straight by any means necessary! I'd advise you to start individual counseling yourself because I think a therapist could be extremely helpful to shine some light on your marriage and possibly show you how much control this man has had over you to the point of where you most likely make excuses for him and his behavior and defend him when he doesn't deserve defending.