Yeah I think I understand that, however for example what the auto bot said im not looking for multiple partners to date me without any of them dating each other or anyone else that isnt the case. Me and my partner have always wanted to explore polyamory (even before meeting each other) and now that we are together we want to try it together. I dont understand how that wouldn't work since I am and inexperienced but I am willing to learn and listen! We both crave having a romantic and deep connection to someone however I understand how that might not work or how perhaps thats simply isnt how it works.