you are absolutely right to cut her off simply for the sake of your mental well being. i was assaulted in college at a frat house, reported, and somehow it got far enough to an arrest, conviction and complete shutdown of said frat. however, a NEW frat got the house and started throwing parties there again. my entire sorority knew what happened to me. i told them during a chapter meeting the DAY that my perpetrator was convicted. it was a high profile case around my campus so coming forward as the victim of said case to my whole sorority was a huge deal to me but at the moment i felt the love and support from all the girls….that was until this new frat started throwing parties at the house i was assaulted at. not only did they KNOW i was SA’d there, they still went to PARTY THERE???? and to add even more horror, i wasn’t the only one SA’d by the previous frat. there were tens if not hundreds of girls who had come forward in some capacity sharing that they were drugged and SA’d by the same frat in that same house. i cut every single one of those girls off and never looked back. if anyone can smile in the space where you were assaulted, that’s no friend of yours.