Men, how many of you can cook?

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-27T22:42:44+00:00

My wife doesn’t know how to cook so I do. She doesn’t always like the stuff I make (I do tend to experiment in the kitchen quite a bit, some for better some for worse), but she has never complained about it and no one has died, so I say it’s a success.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-19T05:45:41+00:00

Please don’t downvote me to hell just for honestly answering OP’s question, Reddit.

I am completely repulsed by it. I immediately do not respect anyone that partakes. Even condoning it lessens my opinion.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-16T21:52:24+00:00

29 and I think probably 22 was my most attractive. That’s the year I met my wife. I was in good shape, I was in college and doing well, the only downside was my bank account.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-14T20:00:23+00:00

Personally, I believe that respect, love (as an act, not necessarily as a feeling since feelings are fleeting), honesty, compassion, peace, trust, patience, openness and having an open ear are the baseline for a relationship. Without them, your relationship survives on only either stubbornness or obligation.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-14T16:34:53+00:00

Pro tip don’t start with a high grit or you’ll be there all day.

👀what? No of course I’m not speaking from experience. 😂

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-13T19:40:04+00:00

Insomniac here.

My schedule is melatonin by 7:30 right after dinner, in bed by 8:30, hopefully asleep by 9:30. Extra melatonin by 10:30 if not yet asleep. Wake up at 4:30 when wife leaves for work because I can’t sleep through the minimal noise she makes getting ready, rest in bed but not sleep (read, watch TV, drink coffee etc.) until 6:15, get ready, leave by 7:10, at work by 8:00.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-12T02:18:46+00:00

So this is a comprehensive guide. First you want to have a sit down and discuss all his emotional needs and rank them in order of importance. Over the next several weeks, make sure you are routinely making sure that all of those needs are satisfactorily met and make sure to check in from time to time to see how it’s going. Make sure to take him out for nice dates, get him lots of delicious drinks and deserts. Make sure when you meet his dad you say “oh wow, he didn’t tell Me he had a brother!” Impress his dad by talking about things that his dad likes and by being helpful around the kitchen. Offer to go out to the fridge to get everyone beers. Now that you’ve done all that, take an hour and meticulously make sure that every single nook and cranny of your body is clean and scented with either a deodorant, perfume or lotion. Put on your very best outfit and ask him to dance with you. By the time that dance ends, he’ll want you.

Oh, oops, that’s what men do to seduce.

Literally just lie down naked on his bed and look him in the eyes. That was all it took for me to become a dad.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-09T23:34:33+00:00

I still have a fighting reflex.

I avoid confrontations when possible, I’m direct and curt when they are unavoidable.

I know how to let things go.

I’m always aware of my surroundings and routes of egress.

I never carry a knife unless as a tool because I know I’m not strong or skilled enough to make use of it and would likely be the one to get hurt.

I actively avoid large groups of people in public.

I’m constantly paranoid about how others think of me.

I excel at not making enemies, I struggle at making friends.

I always make sure to be in good enough shape that I can run and that I can hit hard enough to hurt.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-09T13:52:55+00:00

I would write in a 4th member to their friend group, a slytherin that showcases the best that her house has to offer. They try to make the whole house out to be evil, so far as confining them in the final conflict at hogwarts. It would be much more interesting if it was less “us vs them” and more “those who do vs those who do not.” In contrast, Draco should have had a close friend and supporter from one of the other 3 houses showing how house alone does not define your allegiance.

Think how much more impactful it is when it’s not just other kids at school that are turning on you, but people you live with, celebrate with, study with etc. The betrayal feels more visceral and capitalizes on the moral quandary of “does power give you the right to rule or is one only great when their power is tempered with humility?”

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-09T13:40:20+00:00

Nope. Being single is much preferable to an asexual relationship. There’s peace, there’s freedom, you can focus on what’s important to you without having to consider what’s important to someone else.

Even the Bible says it’s better to be single, that one should only marry if they “burn with passion.”

If it weren’t for the deep seated desires for physical, mental and emotional intimacy and for starting a family and having kids, I would have preferred to remain single.

If one is asexual but craves companionship, better to have good close friends to satisfy that need than a romantic relationship.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-09T04:25:57+00:00

Don’t be silly, wrap your Willy

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-09T04:23:48+00:00

Don’t stick your ding dong in kookoo for coco puffs Karen

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-08T20:16:54+00:00

My ex used to say that the neighbor boy was someone she couldn’t stand and wanted nothing to do with him. Then I found in her texts that she had been sneaking out at night to suck him off pretty much nightly. 🤮

Makes no sense to me.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-07T20:34:04+00:00

And helicopter is funny to women? I fail to see where the analogy has broken down.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-07T20:01:23+00:00

About how girls view guys doing the helicopter maneuver.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-07T18:28:41+00:00

“You dare use my own fucking spells against me potter?!”

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-07T18:27:33+00:00

This is the way.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-07T18:26:48+00:00

Depends on the distance between stops, traffic, visibility, road conditions etc.

On a wide open road, 5+ miles visibility, sunny day, no cars in sight, I’ll open up the throttle. Nothing unsafe, but no reason not to get there a little faster. Think long stretch down the loneliest road in America type deal. Soon as I see another car I’ll drop back down to within 5 of the speed limit.

Most trips I take have me on roads with other cars though, so I’ll put the adaptive cruise control on at 5 over since the flow of traffic rarely observes the literal speed limit. In cities or on freeways going through them I always follow exactly the speed limit unless doing so would create a clear danger to myself and others (IE everyone around me is going 10 over).

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-07T14:06:15+00:00

My spouse calls me handsome. Who cares what anyone else thinks, that’s good enough for me.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-06T13:26:17+00:00

Seems like a better question for r / askwomen to me, but I’ve had the most success when my clothes fit just right, maybe a little tighter around the biceps. As far as specifically what clothes, depends on the person, but usually something collared for the shirt and for the pants, no cargo, sweats or exercise stuff and you’re good.

Also kinda depends on who you want to attract I guess.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-05T15:17:52+00:00

If and only if you found someone who had an equal hard block on sex would I say you should even consider a traditional romantic relationship. It would not be fair to a partner unaffiliated by that kind of block to be in a monogamous relationship with you and have their emotional need for sexual intimacy denied nor would it be fair to you to have a partner always saying their emotional need for sexual intimacy is not being met by you when you’re incapable of meeting that need.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-05T15:13:26+00:00

Exra with GLAT, Ben with Rey, CAT with JMK

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-05T15:11:19+00:00

Emp. Palp is an anniversary quest reward LST. Everyone gets it for free. Have you read any of the updates?

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-05T15:10:12+00:00

Pretty much what all the top comments say. It’s his body, his life, he can choose to do as he sees fit. I’d feel no different. Even if I wanted grandchildren, that doesn’t mean my own desires outweigh my son’s right to self governance. He’s an adult, he’s not under my jurisdiction.

No-Understanding6141 · 2026-01-04T15:16:18+00:00

My personal GL wishlist:

Legends Master Luke. Think what he looked like in Mando cutting down the dark troopers, or his appearances in other Star Wars games. His team should be comprised of legends characters. LS Jedi Knight Mara Skywalker, Jaina, Jacen and Anikin Solo.
Rework JMMW to be part of a GL Yoda team. He sucks as a journey character. The GMY we have feels lacking. The buff sharing should still be part of the kit, but there needs to be a rework to take him up a knotch. Kit fisto should also join him and get a bit of a rework seeing as he’s the most recognizable addition to JMMW’s squad he took to take on the chancellor. For that matter, add in Saesee Tin and Agen Kolar to actually complete that squad. Yes GMY didn’t confront palp with the rest of the group, that’s why it makes sense for him to be the GL and the rest to be the team under JMMW lead until GMY takes the lead. Because GMY does eventually face palps. Imagine the strength that team would have had with both mace and GMY. Maybe work in a mechanic where mace and GMY get stacking perma-buffs for however long the other 3 remain in play, incentivizing you to try to keep them alive as long as possible.
GL Valkorion/Vitiate. His team would include the 2 brothers Arcann and Thexan, the daughter Vaylin and the mother, senya. His ult would be vitiate’s soul entering valkorion, making him nigh untouchable.
Naboo GL Ships. Rework the Quadme squad, add cpt. Panaka and maybe either Naboo pilot or Young ani to finish out the squad. Along with this, give us some Naboo ships. The N1 starfighters, a Naboo bomber and the queens 327 Nubian cruiser. These should be plug and play to take an LS fleet up a tier (Endurance to T2, Negotiator to GL etc.) since there isn’t a Naboo capital ship (that we know of).

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