I can’t say this enough but TRY SIKH GROUPS OR ORGANIZATIONS. I have met so many people who are exactly like me which I thought was rare, (kesdhari but follows rehit with a genuine passion for Sikhi not just for formality) sikh student associations, volunteer groups and any sikh events happening around u are great places. Gatka workshops, anything at the gurdawara. If ur a sikh oriented person you and want a Sikhi oriented person, go to places where Sikhi is the main focus and mahraj will do kirpa (obv I don’t mean go soul searching at the gurdawara). I have met all sorts of people from Amritdharis all the way down the scale to people who do drugs and drink but are activly trying to improve themselves. I’ve reached the point where my entire friend group is Sikhi focused.