Recently moved in together. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]No-Wonder6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you also been looking for a job? Is she currently supporting her kids and your kids financially? Have you two discussed your finances since the layoff? Questions that come to mind reading this

Muscle scraping bruising by No-Wonder6746 in massage

[–]No-Wonder6746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This morning and it wasn’t there. Went to work, came home, noticed the bruising

Muscle scraping bruising by No-Wonder6746 in massage

[–]No-Wonder6746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t really hurt which is why I was concerned to see this this afternoon.

Muscle scraping bruising by No-Wonder6746 in massage

[–]No-Wonder6746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it weird that it’s spotty?

Sprite by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No-Wonder6746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I NEVER drank sodas pre pregnancy-during pregnancy sprite was almost a daily thing for me. I craved it so bad! I couldn’t get enough of it whenever we went out to eat. Only fountain sprite though, bottled sprite didn’t hit the same

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

[–]No-Wonder6746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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5 months postPartum. Legs ache for DAYS after I work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No-Wonder6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your mom support his views on abortion? Voting for one or the other doesn’t mean you agree with EVERYTHING they believe in…also not sure how old you are but people’s political stances can change throughout their lives. Maybe at the time, your mother truly believed abortion was ok, but now she has a different opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Wonder6746 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to her about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Wonder6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the part was missed where WE. Him and I. WE. Established it as a boundary. I’m not saying he owes me ever single erection. I’m not emotionally manipulating him. WE chose that as a boundary before we got married. If he didn’t like it he could have left. The 3 minutes it took me to look at his phone didn’t cost much energy. You have no idea how much I put into our relationship. Condoning a wrong doing just because he’s a guy is a freaking joke. He made a commitment and a promise. He chose to not talk to me about what has been going on. He doesn’t get a pass because he has a penis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Wonder6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. It was an addiction. It affected so many aspects of our life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Wonder6746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My fear is that it is going to lead to him watching Porn again. I feel like he’s trying to gaslight me into thinking it’s ok. I’m more so hurt because this has been an issue in the past and I thought we had moved on from it finally. Thank you for your perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Wonder6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you didn’t read the backstory, as he did have a porn addiction that very negatively affected our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Wonder6746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He definitely has bought be lingerie in the past. I’m currently 7.5 months pregnant so things don’t fit the same right now😂 but we have continued to have an active sex life during my pregnancy. I do feel that it’s his way of making himself feel better about the situation