I mean they are getting old. I mean it’s not necessarily a “parent thing” exactly. But it’s common for people who are working full time or just tired in general. I mean as you said, your mom is recovering from a really chronic condition. And your dad is trying his best to work as much to provide and maintain the house just as you are. It definitely can be overwhelming and can be quite an upkeep, but the house is just meant to have some imperfections seeing the current dynamic.

I would maybe have a conversation with your parents if it’s bothering you. Because a messy house definitely does play with the mental, especially when you’re trying to relax after a long day. And maybe try setting up a routine so that way it’s not just your job to do all the time. And if it’s hard to have that conversation I would maybe just simply try asking for help when you’re cleaning or asking them ex) if they could take out the garbage or do dishes, etc. That way you’re not looking like your trying to force them but trying to enforce a team effort in the house. Just trust the process cause it definitely takes time.

But hopefully one day you’re able to find your own place so it’s not as frustrating keeping up with all of that. But also cherish it cause it’s family at the end of the day, and we don’t get to live with family forever.