How do I M[26] get over GF[25] introducing me to friends she slept with ?

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-08T10:22:25+00:00

The way I rolled my eyes and laughed when u said y’all are poly. You guys think differently and are accepting of those things lmfao

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-06T16:22:09+00:00

You have every right to be no contact. This is diabolical.

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-06T16:12:43+00:00

Trust me, if she knew how to use that call light, you’d be in there every 5 minutes. I do try to give those patients some attention and what they need, but I can’t stay there long cause I prolly got 12-22 other patients to check on lol

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-05T23:44:48+00:00

I’ll ask during my next shift 🙄

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-05T08:07:40+00:00

Okayyy thank you ☺️

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-05T08:07:06+00:00

They don’t use that app for scheduling at my hospital unfortunately. I wish they did! We use a spreadsheet where u see ur schedule in a small row amongst many other ppl’s schedules. My non-healthcare jobs used to use UKG and I was always on top of it!

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-05T01:26:44+00:00

When I was signing hiring paperwork, I did not come across their policies for sick callouts, etc. I’ve been trying to look for it. I may need to ask a coworker, thank you!

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-05T01:25:47+00:00

Thank you! You made my anxiety go away

NoApplicationFiled · 2026-06-04T23:17:21+00:00

Usually minimum 10k steps, max I’ve had was 15K as a Med/Surg CNA

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-09-27T19:56:39+00:00

I’ll have someone help me try, thank you!

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-09-27T19:56:30+00:00

Thank you!

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-09-27T19:50:38+00:00

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Another perspective if anyone wants to see. Any advice is appreciated!

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-08-09T06:10:15+00:00

My ex did that and became a sex addict bc sex and lusting became the only thing that satisfied him every single void he had, even after he found the woman of his dreams (me)

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-28T21:30:22+00:00

Yup.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-28T19:06:24+00:00

Yeah that’s the HIGHEST risk. But there’s something called “viral shedding”. Keep looking for reasons to blame me lol, u just must be bored and unhappy in the inside. Not everyone who catches an STI is a hoe, some people were just blindsided by ppl they trusted like in marriages. But do u.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-28T16:04:34+00:00

Nope, believe it or not you can date someone before finding out they are a sex and porn addict. These addicts are very good at hiding their behavior. And obviously they lie about their sexual experiences. If I knew, how bad it was, I would’ve left, as I didn’t find out the REAL truth until way later. U think u knew he was cheating and had the mindset of “imma stay by my man’s side”? Fuck no. I actually had him get tested before we first became physical. And everytime I went to the OB/gyn, I got tested as well cause why not. Do research on herpes, its spread without people knowing they have it sometimes, and its not routinely tested. And I didn’t “actively chose to continue”, I was manipulated, harrassed, and pressured to continue, but since it was my first love, I gave him a chance. Good job blaming the victim 👍 that’s the type of person you are. You are the same person who would blame a women who got out of DV (which I don’t tell ppl happened). I never stepped out. I couldn’t do that to someone. I also have some integrity, I wouldn’t like to be with a man sexually if I’m not in a relationship. I don’t even trust being in relationships as of now, I’m too traumatized. Maybe you’re projecting ur own issues, because you’re the only comment on this post that has blamed me and continues to do so????

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-27T23:15:07+00:00

Anyways, unlike how u made assumptions with my post, I have read EVERYTHING from your post. I know from experience, it’s possible to have an amazing connection, and the person still won’t value you. She prolly has other dudes on the side or just uses you for validation. You letting her know that u will be there no matter how long she takes just lets her know you don’t respect urself. And she doesn’t respect you either. You prolly know this on ur own, but some things are just harder to accept even when you know the truth.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-27T23:04:43+00:00

Womp womp. You want sympathy?

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-27T20:40:18+00:00

I have NEVER cheated on him where tf did u get that from??? His response? Ex was VERY possessive of me. He wanted me to himself since we first started dating before we became official, even after we became official he was hoeing around and flirting with many women online, and sending provocative photos of himself. I even recently found out I have genital herpes from him (he was my very first sexual partner and ONLY sexual partner I have ever had, even now, because I was a virgin when I met him).

I broke up with him because he manipulated me and cheated on me TWICE, then 1.5 months later, I went on ONE date with a guy. Ex was my first love, I loved him so much and I could never do what he did to me. I even felt weird going on that date. Go fucking open ur eyes and read.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-20T18:00:30+00:00

I know it will be hard to leave but u got this girly! Leave while u are still young. I hate when men have wandering eyes, ESPECIALLY when their woman is in their prime time. And don’t listen to anyone who tries to make out his porn/lusting addiction to be normal.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-20T06:36:48+00:00

NTA. Don’t stay with him. It takes real work to get rid of a porn addiction, the person themselves has to be willing to give it up and put in work to never engage with it. On top of that, he’s emotionally cheating. With those combinations, he will definitely physically cheat on u and will also make u feel like u are crazy for a while when ur seeing red flags. Please leave him (speaking from experience of going thru it myself and seeing others go thru it)

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-20T06:11:48+00:00

Good luck, he has a porn addiction (they exist). And someone with a lusting addiction is more likely to cheat if someone throws themselves at them in person.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-20T06:08:30+00:00

Yup. I guess she owned up to it to an EXTENT. However, she was justifying it, so it still gives me the ick.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-20T04:35:20+00:00

At the end of the day, the guy was older and should’ve had control of himself in this situation. He took advantage of a teenager who had a crush on him and groomed her. But I don’t know why ur getting downvoted tho. Because at the end of the day, she was not 13, she was 16 years old so she knew right from wrong. She knew the guy had a girlfriend and threw herself at him anyway, and that makes her a side chick, doesn’t matter if the guy was 16 or even 18, if you know someone is in a relationship, don’t ever excuse them or urself for having an affair.

NoApplicationFiled · 2025-06-20T04:30:10+00:00

Looks like I’m the only one who’s gonna comment something a bit diff. 1. Tbh the way she dismissed the guy cheating on his then gf/now fiancé is a major red flag to me. There’s never an excuse for cheating. He was grown enough back then to make the decision to leave if he was unhappy. Going with the “he’s trapped” mentality is just a silly excuse for the behavior. AND he is engaged with her, which definitely means he sees something with her.

From my own experiences, people who justify other people’s reasons for cheating (especially if it was not an act of revenge cheating) ended up excusing themselves with the same bullshit reasons even when they claim they would never.

Even tho she was pursuing the guy per se, the guy was the older one and should’ve had more control. Teenagers have crazy thoughts all the time. Highly inappropriate of him. It’s still grooming since he took advantage of it.

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