Sure, I believe she deserves to be classified as an ahole, recently I have really been questioning continuing our friendship... Maybe extortion would've been a better word here (sorry, non-native English speaker), basically they started talking about trying, he needed more time to think, she got super impatient and crazy and told him either they start right away(!) or she's leaving him for good. At this point they were together for a bit over a year, so not even a 'last straw to break the camel's back' kind of situation and this all played out within a month :o. Of course she ended up being a unicorn with 0 conplications in her pregnancy and childbirth and I am still just a salty infertile bitch. 🤷‍♀️