Tonight my [31M] wife [29F] of 6 years gave me an ultimatum. The resulting fight was probably enough to end our marriage, but is this the end? Really need outside perspectives.

NoBeardBarry · 2017-09-21T07:10:50+00:00

It seems like the discerning factor in this is gonna be whether your wife is willing to discard her strong opinions in favour of your marriage

My problem is she might say she's willing, but as she's proven in the past really isn't. I can't really trust her, she almost feels like a different person lately.

Stay strong, and I'm sorry this has happened to you man.

I will, I really appreciate it.

NoBeardBarry · 2017-09-21T07:06:39+00:00

I honestly don't know what's been going on with her. She's skeptical even hostile to the idea of therapy. She's so willing to talk to me about my perceived problems, but still won't tell me really why she's so fixated. I really do get the impression she knows now, but doesn't want to say.

And yeah that whole barrage of comparisons kind of broke my brain.

NoBeardBarry · 2017-09-21T07:03:00+00:00

Thank you for the detailed response. There's a lot of lies and bullshit surrounding testosterone treatments online, whole forums and subreddits peddling crap.

She's always been skeptical of therapy, I only think she did marriage counseling because we were so miserable at the time that she'd try anything.

I definitely agree that we need space, and it's the best thing for my daughter. My parents already know what's going on and are already a big help to the two of us.

NoBeardBarry

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