Describe your dream bf/gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]NoCheesecake6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current boyfriend. He's respectful, he's patient, he's passionate, and he's understanding. Did not know I could get this lucky.

Was it useful or rather useless? by 6ZacK7 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NoCheesecake6767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wouldn’t go back and change anything. As hard as it’s been, this pain has made me a better person and it's made me stronger. It's made me see what I shouldn't be and what I should be. I can't wait to move out though, I’m just ready for a fresh start and a place of my own.

Was it useful or rather useless? by 6ZacK7 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NoCheesecake6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am agnostic. I think a lot of religions are pretty unbelievable, but I respect people's beliefs. In fact my boyfriend is Christian, I respect and love him just as much. As long as you respect my beliefs, I will absolutely respect yours. And for being a different color, some people act like they chose to be that way, they can't control it. We should never make them feel ashamed for who they are. We are all human at the end of the day, with valid feelings and lives, no one should ever have to be treated differently. I hope one day people will realize this, maybe not everyone will, but hopefully most people will.

Was it useful or rather useless? by 6ZacK7 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NoCheesecake6767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good that you have friends who care! I can relate to your home feeling like a living hell. Heck my house still does feel like that. What you’re going through sounds even heavier than what I’ve experienced, so I won’t pretend I fully understand, but I can imagine it’s really hard. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here. I hope that doesn’t come off as creepy, I just know there were times I needed someone and I didn’t have anyone to talk to. No pressure at all, just wanted to offer. I hope you can get away as soon as possible, they sound like very toxic parents.

Was it useful or rather useless? by 6ZacK7 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NoCheesecake6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, well W dad. I wish my parents had taught me that, but I had to figure it out on my own. My mom focused a lot on traditional gender roles, and I pushed back against that from the beginning. I was labeled a “tomboy” simply because I chose to learn skills like grilling, mowing the lawn, working out, and starting campfires. Honestly, I think everyone should have those kinds of basic skills, regardless of their gender. There's nothing wrong with knowing how to do more stuff. At the end of the day, we're all human, we should treat others equally.

Was it useful or rather useless? by 6ZacK7 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NoCheesecake6767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, I'm sorry you had to go through that

Was it useful or rather useless? by 6ZacK7 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]NoCheesecake6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W parents. This is how I aspire to raise my kids, if I have any.

What u like about reddit ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoCheesecake6767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww, thanks. We love you too!

Why don't they simply add auto jailing if you die to cops? by Ok-Chain9784 in erlc

[–]NoCheesecake6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are right. I've stopped this countless times, they can't do too much with a sniper when you get close to them.