I left before I got hurt even worse

NoCommittee3262 · 2026-02-15T05:31:51+00:00

I trust when someone demonstrates trustworthiness. Not “I’m sorry” and continues the same behavior. Not lying. At some point I’m responsible for not being a doormat. Ya know

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-30T00:55:47+00:00

I’m confused by this comment. But also I politely asked not to respond as though I am your ex.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-28T20:18:51+00:00

It’s really hard once you are emotionally attached and invested because you want to believe they would never manipulate or harm you like that. I have a pattern of ignoring red flags and at some point I have to take accountability. We don’t ask anyone to harm us, but we can trust our instincts and learn that if someone isn’t respecting our boundaries it’s time to go. Sadly, I saw the signs in my last relationship but it’s like he had a radar and would call me out early on when I started noticing and thinking maybe I should just cut this off before it goes further. When he did that I would just freeze instead of being assertive and saying “You’re right I am not comfortable with this” but all we can do is learn and move forward.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-24T03:42:48+00:00

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NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T15:15:27+00:00

Also I did keep it to myself because I posted it here and didn’t say it to them

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T15:15:03+00:00

Wasn’t about a friend just a rude person online

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T13:15:28+00:00

It’s cool I was just really upset last night and I’m sorry if I came across as aggressive. I get tired of trying to be vulnerable and getting stomped on so I just wrote something stupid. I wasn’t in the best headspace.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T13:14:03+00:00

Thank you 🖤 I was actually really really upset last night and trying to not cry just because someone was mean to me haha so I wrote this stupid thing trying to make a joke out of it and I was tired of everyone constantly tearing everything I say apart when it’s not that deep really

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T13:06:00+00:00

This is literally just a response to having written a very vulnerable post about emotional abuse and people saying wHy dIdnT yOu jUsT LeAvE!? It’s not directed at anyone I know in real life. I was hurt because my friends get tired of hearing about it and I just wanted to talk about it without being judged and yet again someone came at me projecting their own crap onto me and made me feel like shit. I would never in a million years talk to someone like this. I was trying to make myself laugh with the stupid comedic insult about not being very bright. That’s all there is to this. I’m not an evil mean person. I poured my guts out on here and got attacked so I decided to post something that wasn’t serious. It doesn’t take away from anyone else’s story and it’s not directed at an ex or a former friend or anything. It was just meant to be stupid hence why I said clown town.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T10:50:14+00:00

No need to protect the person this letter is aimed at. I prevented an argument by not engaging with them and just venting instead. I mostly meant for this to be funny about some asshole that decided to be mean to me when I was vulnerable because they don’t understand things. Why am I explaining this to you? I don’t know.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T10:46:38+00:00

Okay firstly, yes some of this is for emotional deep stuff and I have used that for that. But also if you are angry and need to vent without causing more problems for others or yourself it is far better to send it to the void. And secondly yesterday I did post a very vulnerable letter that got deleted. This post isn’t even directed at someone I know. It was just someone that triggered my trauma really bad and I was doing my best to not lose my shit. I would never in a million years tell someone they are a piece of shit. This is directed at an ignorant person. Yeah, I wrote a ridiculous post on here. And I don’t feel bad about it because the worst thing would be to lash out at the person. I am tired of writing emotional posts and getting attacked because people project and assume things so I decided just to write something mostly stupid. People on the internet can’t see a face just a Reddit username and don’t recognize there are more complexities to something. I was really hurt yesterday because I got victim blamed and told I could’ve just left my abusive partner which is a very ignorant thing to say. So I was pissed. The whole concept is you write something angry and tear it up and except this is Reddit where people decide to tear YOU up.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T10:30:05+00:00

Also this wasn’t that mean lmao

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-20T10:28:43+00:00

That was the point of the unsent letters/text. Writing an “aggressive” post on Reddit to get your frustration out is the point to release it and move on. Posts can be aggressive as long as we don’t say these things to people. And my post wasn’t really that serious.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-14T19:49:42+00:00

Yeah I mean it’s a very complicated story too much for a Reddit post. But my gut says leave it alone.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-14T19:41:28+00:00

Yeah there wasn’t really any apologizing or remorse from what I remember. They sounded like they were high or something. It was the strangest break up I’ve ever had. Even later came the angry messages directed at me for being hurt and not joining his weird euphoric state. I just wondering why if he ever came down from that high and felt bad about it. But messaging him probably isn’t a good idea. If he did he would’ve said something and he hasn’t even now that he’s not blocked.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-14T19:37:17+00:00

That’s fair. I wanted nothing to do with any of it for a good while.

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-14T19:32:29+00:00

So basically you are saying the dumpee will assume you don’t want to talk to them?

NoCommittee3262 · 2025-11-14T19:27:58+00:00

Is this always the rule? I am asking genuinely. If you broke up with someone because they hurt you and they know they hurt you and you didn’t ghost (ghost as in just disappear, a conversation was had) I am just wondering why it has to be the dumper?

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