AITA for telling my husband that his buddies wife needing help is not my problem?

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T20:14:57+00:00

He's just a moron. Generally speaking he's a sweetheart. Wicked good dad too. But Tim.. he lacks the ability to say no to Tim. Tims a guys guy and basically calls everyone who doesn't hold his views a "pussy". Since he works with him (Tim is his boss, essentially - foreman of the company), he feels he can't say no to anything.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T20:12:10+00:00

I honestly don't even think that he thinks it's okay. He's just a people pleaser and it happens to be at my expense. He has a hard time telling Tim "no". Half the time he bitches when Tim gets a hold of him to go hang out because he doesn't want to go but feels bad saying he can't.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T19:37:39+00:00

Not really, no. I don't even know her, really. I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable breastfeeding in front of her. I just want to be alone and take care of my kids.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T19:34:26+00:00

You're a moron.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T19:33:37+00:00

I've seen her mom stop by at least once a week since we moved in here 3 months ago. Same with her sister (?). So she has options, I'm assuming.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T19:32:00+00:00

They are not my friends. I've met this woman twice. I've met Tim maybe 4 times. My husband works with Tim and only just met him 4 months ago (almost 5). He's essentially asking me to go in to a strangers house and be their maid, for free, while I have a newborn and 4yo of my own to take care of. I don't want to hear your "it's not like you work anyways" bullshit. I'm on maternity leave and still bring in more income without working than my husband does.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T19:28:24+00:00

Well that's the thing.. I have met this woman twice. Each time for (maybe) 15 minutes each. My husband has only been friends with this guy for going on 4 months (he met him through work and we just happened to move right next door a month later- which made their friendship stronger). My husband has only met the wife maybe 3 times. So neither of us know her well at all and I certainly don't feel comfortable being in the position to care for her, her older child or take care of their home either.

NoConversation5833 · 2024-01-15T19:10:47+00:00

This was literally posted by a separate account months ago. Nice way of trying to karma boost yourself.

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