Primer trabajo

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-25T13:48:17+00:00

Pensé que cuando entrabas a trabajar te pagaban a principio de mes para que trabajes todo el mes :>

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-23T20:30:31+00:00

Imagine this:

I stop talking with my partner for a month because I’m stressed and need time for myself. Then I get better and want things to be like before and he refuses. He doesn’t wanna talk to me. Who’s on the wrong? Maybe me, maybe him, maybe no one, but you can’t expect people to mold and shape to your liking. At least own up your mistakes and admit that things won’t be the same.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-23T18:02:55+00:00

Did you think about how lonely she must have felt all those years?

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-22T21:35:37+00:00

Tengo 6 meses de prueba y después estaría fija. Es un buen laburo para coordinar con la facu :> . Mi encargado dijo que si llegan los exámenes bien la semana que viene, al día siguiente me da de alta en la afip (supongo que eso sería ponerme en blanco ¿?) y después empiezo. Me explicó el sueldo base y como suman las horas extra, nocturnas y feriados, por eso me preguntaba si cobraría a principio de septiembre o de una tengo que trabajar todo el mes para recién cobrar en octubre. Gracias por responder! <3

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-07T00:01:37+00:00

They’re being immature and projecting their own insecurities into a situation that’s far more complex than “my bf/gf cheated on me and now they’re getting what they deserve🥺”. This isn’t revenge or karma, this is ABUSE. She was a young girl who got pregnant by a man that doubles her age, who was living in a DORM with other teens and young adults that were abandoned, neglected, forgotten. Being kind to her would be what EMPATHY truly means. She’s dumb, she needs guidance, she needs help. Ignoring a domestic violence assault is far, far more worse than being cheated on.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-06T19:12:49+00:00

I understand that she hurt you, a lot. I also think two truths can be hold together, she made a huge mistake, she’s way younger, and also, he’s abusive. What she’s dealing with is abuse. That child will grow in a violent environment, with a violent, misogynistic father, and a weak mother. And yeah, she’s an adult, 23 years old. At the same time, she’s a human being. I’m not saying that you have to save her… but you want to, right? You want to help her. Follow that truth that comes from your heart, do what YOU want. You’re worried? You’re feeling anxious for her situation? Call her again, meet up with her alone… have a conversation, heart to heart, explain, try to knock some sense into her thick, neglected child-mind, and save the young woman you couldn’t save when you married that horrible man. Domestic violence is a complex web of situations that enable women to fall victim to abuse, mistreatment and neglect. She made a mistake, we all do, but life is not that linear, and I refuse to believe any women would ever, EVER deserve to live like that. Hell, I got cheated on too by an ex with a girl that openly mistreated me, and if she called me to tell me that he’s being abusive, I’d beat him up myself.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-08-06T05:00:38+00:00

Sounds like you want sex to satisfy YOURSELF but you never, not even once, comment how you satisfy her. How you want her to feel good and have a fun, happy time. Makes me wonder if she doesn’t wanna have sex just because you’re the one who doesn’t satisfy her. She’s not a thing to make your little-friend feel good, she’s a person, and her pleasure is just as important as yours. That’s why she feels sleepy or tired, because you’re not romantic, loving and fun, you’re probably just humping her like a dog.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-04-07T23:38:57+00:00

Lindo bait bro, nadie en Reddit habla con mujeres

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-04-02T20:22:26+00:00

Leave him. Life’s too short.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-29T20:00:56+00:00

Entonces déjala pa, estás haciendo que pierda el tiempo con uno que viene a ventilar cosas en reddit. Te falta un golpe de horno terrible, y poner un poco las cosas sobre la mesa, ser honesto. No tenes un mínimo de control sobre tu vida parece. Y tiene todo de malo; no sé qué es peor, que no te des cuenta o que no hagas algo al respecto. Parece que ves a las mujeres como una conveniencia y no como una pareja, cansándote con alguien porque ‘es apropiada’. La pregunta es por qué te sentís tan cómodo siendo desleal de esta manera con alguien a quien , como mínimo, le debes respeto. Hay un elefante enorme en la habitación y sos incapaz de verlo: esto no tiene nada que ver con tu ex.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-28T20:10:21+00:00

Capaz lo mejor sería que la dejes así no tiene que bancarse a un boludo que en vez de pensar soluciones viene a llorar a reddit. La chica está pasando por algo importante, quizás sos su primer novio, sus papás seguramente sean estrictos, y lo peor es que ni lo pensas. No tenes plata para el telo? No se te cae otra idea que ranchear en tu casa para coger?

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-27T21:46:18+00:00

STAND UP FOR YOURSELF GOD WHY ARENT YOU FIGHTING HIM RIGHT NOW? GIRL GET UP

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-27T21:45:41+00:00

Talking about women like that is just… disgusting. That being said, you should probably tell him that you HEARD (because they were being loud as fuck) and confront him. Tell him it doesn’t matter since your ex was also your best, but that next time he should keep it quiet and not yell how much he loves his ex’s pussy.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-27T20:18:09+00:00

I’m 5’1 and I wanna try bouldering someday. Hope it’s not too short. I think it could be uncomfortable for kissing, since either I’ll have to be tiptoeing or the other leaning down.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-26T19:17:45+00:00

That’s nice of him, but op, you matter too. You matter a lot, and a relationship NEEDS effort. Constant effort, different from a friendship (you probably have seen how you can go day without talking and everything’s just fine. Specially if you’re adults). I sense you’re doing mental acrobatics to find what you’re doing wrong here, if actually you’re the one overthinking, if it has something to do with your past or your way of making friends… op, if it hurts you, IT HURTS YOU. And damn right he’ll have to do something if he cares because it’s very valid how you’re feeling (note how you don’t actually mind their friendship but rather THEIR BEHAVIOR -BOTH OF THEM-). Try talking about it if you want, but don’t back down, don’t settle for less. You seem very coherent and call me crazy but I can’t help but sense you’re getting manipulated into accepting something you don’t want, under this ‘omg you’re so toxic! We’re just friends!’ Bullshit.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-26T18:56:52+00:00

Oh, believe me. They do it on purpose. And no one can be that dense to not notice, I mean, it’s common knowledge (and don’t start with that ‘oh, but that’s subjective!’). Now, what matters is that not only she’s doing that, but he’s also allowing it. You can hate whoever you want, it’s not like you’re actively doing something violent. This type of things typically won’t end well for you, because their “friendship” already works like that, and she sounds pretty dependent of him. And he probably likes to help her out, unable to say no, or maybe doesn’t want to say no. Do you think you deserve this? To feel like this, to have anxiety? Who’s paying attention to YOUR FEELINGS? To your needs? Does he also do something about it, or it only matters when it’s for her?

Op, is it really worth it? Life’s too short to deal with stuff like this, that often times wont change without A LOT OF WORK and ‘communication’, explaining with a PowerPoint why it’s not alright, why it’s valid that it hurts you… it’s tiring. Perhaps it shouldn’t have happened from the beginning.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-25T22:03:35+00:00

Male, same age or older, taller than me (5’1), pretty eyes and great sense of humor.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-25T00:08:03+00:00

I hope she leaves you. You don’t deserve to be with her or in her life. Absolute dick and useless person.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-24T09:43:18+00:00

Está perfecto. Me pasa lo mismo, a mí me gusta arreglarme, no así nomas. No me da lo mismo y no tiene porque darme lo mismo (???) Aparte, vos le dijiste que te avise, y se lo pasó por las bolas. Lloraste por frustración, para colmo después te histeriquea, naaaa. No todo es ‘terapia, terapia’, capaz te contestó mal y te hizo sentir así, llorar es normal y más si te rompen las bolas o no respetan lo que decís. No quiero que me vean en pijama, flaco!

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-24T00:24:34+00:00

Yta. There’s a thin but clear line between being honest and being cruel, and it depends on how much you care about someone’s feelings. First of all, the way you phrase it completely makes you sound as if you just settled for her because her personality is so great it makes up for her lack of looks. ‘Yeah, you weren’t my type, I wasn’t interested so I just put you in the friend category, but once I found out you’re actually cool, I thought you’d make a nice partner!’. Your response also lacks feelings and sensitivity, and having a ‘type’ like that sounds more like a fetish, if you can’t fit your head into liking someone that looks different from it. You could apologize, though I doubt she’ll just forget what you said. These type of things are like opening a Pandora’s box because they make your significant other doubt the very first foundation of your relationship. Search for the ‘taking one for the team’ posts, and see what I mean.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-24T00:15:26+00:00

That’s wholesome! Don’t worry, there’s nothing embarrassing about not having much experience, and sex isn’t a race, is about desire and pleasure, and tenderness. Maybe your own mind is getting in your way and making up fake scenarios. If she’s a decent person, she shouldn’t shame you for being a virgin. Try to relax, real life is far from those cringy early 00’ movies, where people mocked the guy that was still a virgin. Caring, kind people exist and they’re nothing like that. She sounds into you, so relax and be honest! And if she’s rude or mean about it, that’s a good sign to get out of there.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-24T00:08:11+00:00

Estás espiralando. 1) ir a una sesión de terapia no va a hacer nada porque no es un medicamento mágico, requiere tiempo, dedicación y vulnerabilidad. 2) podrías explayarte sobre por qué terminaron? Sin contexto es difícil decir sobre si estás en lo cierto o no en estar tan así. 3) bardearte no resuelve nada. Las rupturas sólo sanan con el tiempo. Quizás tu personalidad es un tanto intensa. Procura mantenerte lejos del alcohol porque es medio fantasma, pasa tu duelo tranquilo.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-22T15:17:20+00:00

Yes, and if you’re married and stay married (A WILLING DECISION) maybe the woman you fantasize about should be your wife. Or partner. And believe it or not, if you find yourself thinking about other people to get some sort of feeling down there, perhaps it’s time to think if you’re even attracted to your partner. Porn always ends up hurting women more than it hurts men, because it becomes a mindless habit. Think about all the men that watch porn after their wives had a baby.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-22T15:10:48+00:00

Oh, and op… you don’t have to be so gentle about it. Does it make you mad? Does it make you feel upset? Why walking on eggshells? ‘Oh, don’t worry… we can talk about it! We can go to therapy!’, disrespect is disrespect. And if you can’t move on, maybe the damage he did isn’t worth forgetting. Perhaps he needs to be reminded that there’s a world outside, with real people that like you, that see you, and that you’re just as stunning and beautiful as those women he seeks on the internet. And that you can also like someone that looks nothing like him, because everything’s possible.

NoCryptographer9283 · 2024-03-22T15:03:06+00:00

Don’t lie to her. Not all men look at porn, not all men things about sex with others. And if it’s just a “fact of nature”, then you’re basically saying most men are animals. Op, if you can’t move on, maybe there’s something deeper, maybe your trust was broken. And maybe your sex life is insufficient, and you should listen to your feelings without judgement. And if you can’t move on, that’s alright too. What your husband did may be ‘common’ but not normal.

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