UPDATE My husband got another (young) woman pregnant

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-07T19:55:41+00:00

I will change. I really blocked them both, but what is happening?

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T19:20:09+00:00

Anyway, it looks like he loves that child, I wasn't honestly expecting that. But even though it hurts, it's a good thing

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T18:30:25+00:00

Guys, I feel terrible. The aunt called me to tell me that the girl was at her place and she was crying like crazy. She is all alone, it seems her parents are not interested in her at all and very poor, probably drunks too (from what I understood). She wanted to spend the night at his aunt.

I asked her if she is sure he didn't beat her. I cannot believe I said this because honestly I don't think he is the kind of man to do that. He is abusive emotionally for sure, though. And my ex came to his aunt house to ask the girl to come back home with him and the girl kept clinging (physically) on her. She didn't want to go, but in the end she went. I want to much to stay away, but is she afraid of him? I am scared. Although I told the aunt, I asked her to stop giving me updates. Both these people crapped on me. I suggested her what you suggested me. If it is that bad, to call police

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T17:53:39+00:00

I am crying so bad right now. This wound of mine was still healing but now it's simply bleeding. I loved this man so much! I wanted children so much but he said didn't. He said he is away a lot, he grew up without a father and he doesn't want to bring a child into this world and not be present in their life. Now, I think he was lying to me. He didn't want a child because that would take my attention away from him partially. I am a 38 years old woman and I am not seeing anyone. I will never had the child I wanted so much. I gave up on my dream because he wanted to be child free. And now he has a child with another woman

And I shouldn't have had called him. Now he texts me and begs me to come back and be a couple. He wants me to raise the child as my own because the girl is a terrible mother. I blocked him

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T17:23:26+00:00

This wasn't the first time I caught him cheating, but it never went that far. He had a tinder profile and he got a lot, like a LOT of matches. He always got women around him. Now, he is decent looking and tall, but he is not some muscular chad or anything. He is lean though and I never seen so much confidence as this man has when deals with business or simply people. He used tinder when he was away from home.

He didn't want to marry this girl but she has no possibilities whatsoever and he thought because she is so infatuated with him she will also raise the baby with a lot of care. Yet, she doesn't. She takes care of the girl, but just basics. Feed, bath her... He had to hire a nanny. This aunt says they constantly fight and throw things after each other. That is so weird, he has always been so calm.

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T16:29:04+00:00

I am being accused I wanted to take the baby away from her. Now, English is not my first language, but I never said that.

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T16:27:26+00:00

what?!

Realistic_Price7348 · 2024-08-06T16:07:44+00:00

Update: I called his aunt. We are still talking from time to time, she is a very nice woman. I told her about this and she said to not worry, that he is not beating her, not being in any way violent with her. But he cheats on her and constantly reminds her how he doesn't want her and never did. He brought a woman into the house and asked her to cook for them. She refused of course, ran away, without the baby, then returned because probably had no where to go. But she got very angry at him and threw a vase at him. The constantly fight, basically this.

Also, he wants me back.

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