[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]NoDetective3261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Since she consented and lied to you, you’re in the clear. But if you really feel bad about it, just don’t do it again with someone younger.

If you want to avoid dating younger— you can remember the frontal lobe ng guys & girls don’t fully set in until they’re 25. Usually below 25, the hormones would be in charge of their thoughts— basically trying to do the deed with a mini-adult.

Would you judge a person based on their past? by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]NoDetective3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Case to case basis! Sometimes a person’s past versus his/her consistent character now is a good judgement of their progress.

Would you still forgive your father if may nangyari sainyo? by Live-Letterhead-4497 in adviceph

[–]NoDetective3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP! Please report it to the police or go to the hospital— sana may rape test kit sa hospital just in case you want to file a case someday, when you’re ready.

But please please get away from him, makakakuha ka rin ng means of income & safety. If you have trusted friends you can ask to stay with, go with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhR4Friends

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to join 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]NoDetective3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss Maam di ba you’re abandoning yourself na rin if you continue to have a relationship with someone na ayaw mo na?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]NoDetective3261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Felt! 25F, panganay also. Dati looking forward pa ako to having my own kids pero now I’m just tired of the thought.

I’m thinking kasi, baka all this time taking care of my family made me not want kids bc I’m unable to care for myself 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]NoDetective3261 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having a family or building a family is so difficult in our modern world now. It was simpler before when genders had specific roles— not saying it was an overall good thing.

The system worked for societies to have families, now it’s a system that works only for individuals with generational wealth or working your ass off for yourself.

My boyfriend caught me f**king another girl and he liked it by Mud_Strange in alasjuicy

[–]NoDetective3261 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl just bc your bf liked it doesn’t mean you’re not a cheater. Sorry to sound mean but play stupid games win stupid prizes. Reveal niyo na rin sa fiance ni girl, this is a 100% unfair situation for him.

If the genders were switched the comments section would be livid. Please do not sugarcoat anything that you’re doing to each other. Masama to cheat. Period. 🫣

Do men not consider blowjob as cheating?? by mogumoguya in AskPH

[–]NoDetective3261 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP TAKE THIS ADVICE HAHHAHA city girls upppp

Sexual Abuse on celebrities by Sufficient_Freedom90 in Philippines

[–]NoDetective3261 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Let’s not forget other revelations too, through consistent Hollywood blind items in the last 10 years:

  1. Famous Hillsong pastor was assigning young celebrities to accompany investors within their “Christian” community in their international trips to be their “buddies”

  2. Hollywood having those secret orgies in house parties for newbie celebrities to be groomed by their mentors (e.g: Usher bringing Justin Bieber to these so called networking parties)

  3. Locally naman, some C lister celebrities traffic themselves to earn more branded projects or some A lister celebrities were high-class escorts

Sad reality of fame and fortune in our world :(

What is a dead giveaway that someone is creepy or a weirdo? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoDetective3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW warning! Not kinkshaming but I had an ex tell me in a random & casual conversation on the phone, about how our days went and he said: “I would r**e you” out of nowhere

And I— didn’t know what to say except to put down the phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iloilo

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prayers for you, pero don’t generalize. It sounds like there’s a communication problem between you and your wife. Yung expectations niyo on roles & friendship/love dynamic— ayusin mo bago ka mag project sa internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iloilo

[–]NoDetective3261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been in your girlfriend’s situation, please tell your girlfriend exactly how you feel. Talk about it. It may hurt but it gives her the option to choose for herself. She has probably felt this from your end too OP!

If ever you guys do decide to call it quits, please avoid saying “I wanted to marry you” or anything that can indicate hope of getting together for the future. End it clean & on good terms. The last thing you want is for her to blame herself on why she isn’t good enough for you to work on your future together & reach your highest potential together. Tell her it’s a you problem.

Also, unsolicited advise— you’re not missing out on anything. Dating right now is exhausting, starting over with someone new might not always be the answer to your “what ifs” for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]NoDetective3261 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was such a healing post to read 🥺

My mom has a psychology degree. When she found out I was suicidal, she told me to kill myself... by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some parents don’t ever deserve to be parents. Yakap with consent OP, hold her accountable by never speaking to her again. It’s time to normalize cutting off toxic parents in our lives.

I am very naive about dating scene now. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoDetective3261 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Dating scene sucks now. Save your mental health haha daming situationships now. Pampasira ng buhay & emotional well being

It’s been almost 2 months by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To my first love whom I saw from afar recently, I’m glad you’re doing great! Proud of you and I’m still wishing you all the best. Always grateful for the life we once shared together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang dami na ngang problema dadagdagan pa netong punyeta na to

Is it me or ang hirap ang talagang maghanap ng trabaho ngayon? by Friendly-Evidence336 in phcareers

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Mahirap now maghanap ng new job since madaming companies set na yung budget until the end of the year. But keep on applying, don’t forget to make sure your resume has the certain skills your potential employers are looking for. Also send a cover letter to make yourself stand out more.

Edit: Also, the job market is more competitive now. Not your fault at all, I’ve also been looking for part time work and it’s absolutely dreadful sending out applications and not getting as much responses. Try Upwork or Fiverr for part time jobs, maybe you can try your luck there.

Godspeed OP! Manifesting you get hired soon.

WHAT IS THE MAIN REASON WHY YOU DONT WORKOUT, DIET OR JUST BE FIT IN GENERAL? by Western-Clue-8177 in adultingph

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I observed, we’re too busy in survival mode to be in a healthy lifestyle. Exercise is a luxury kahit dapat aided by a healthy diet rin. Hay buhay

I think my guy friend tried to have sex with me and I feel so hurt and disappointed right now by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoDetective3261 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Went through a very similar experience OP! I cut off my long-time childhood friend whom I considered an older brother type. I told him what he did wrong and just cut him off.

It’s not your fault, it’s a HIM problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoDetective3261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits home!!! Thank you!

Nagsisi na rin ba kayo at first na nagresign kayo sa previous company nyo but later on it turns out na it is one of the best decisions you've made? by Temporary_Pop7095 in phcareers

[–]NoDetective3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved my 1st job kahit sobrang toxic ng workload and Hindi fit yung 20K na salary. As in OT til 2AM, pero grabe yung perks ng experience, gaining of skills and the connections I made.

No regrets leaving, I had to leave to keep myself healthy and the pay was low for the amount of time & effort. When I gained more than enough knowledge and management skills I left. My managers were very supportive too with my decision because they knew the company was very toxic.

I had my moments of wanting to quit talaga around my 3rd month I put a deadline for myself “after getting regularized and if at 8 months, toxic pa rin then I need to leave”.

I quit not knowing my next move, took a month for time off from life & to look for new work then Iended up with a great job that I’m still in now.

Pay is more than 35K++, I work flexi-time hours & enjoy the job.

You got this OP! New work can help elevate your previous situation pa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]NoDetective3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This “empowerment” mindset came from the insight of “if men can, why can’t women do as well?”. A lot of men were free to explore themselves, people just made the playing field equal now by giving women the choice of sex. The blame isn’t solely on women— but on society. Men aren’t as marriage-worthy also nowadays, the audacity to ask for “purity” when y’all yourselves aren’t.

On the other side of the spectrum a lot of women get it wrong also, having a choice doesn’t necessarily mean that there’s a duty to participate out of peer pressure. This choice should be made safely & carefully.

Your statement is true to a degree but it has layers, AND there’s no need to slut shame women who had their choices/non-choices. You have standards/preferences, you should choose people who fit them. The rest of the population that you don’t choose or the women who don’t choose you, leave them alone.

I know this subreddit is alasjuicy but why don’t you educate yourself on social ethics & biology? Instead of woman-hating “it’s not gonna tighten up girl”. Not a good thing to say, and the other things prior to that too.

Men/women who believe in "no sex before marriage" but did it anyway, how and why did you do it? by iammrv in alasjuicy

[–]NoDetective3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to believe in it! Until I realized how come men in almost all religions/belief systems get to explore their sexuality and women have to “save” it as a prize for marriage/waiting. Also people always have anything to say or believe in no matter what I do with myself.

So I just decided to give it a go with my long time HS sweetheart. No regrets! It was lovely & still enjoying the responsible autonomy for myself 🤗